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StanleyRay

41 M San Mateo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm charming, witty, and a laugh riot. I've never been married and I don't have any kids. I'm not afraid of commitment, just never met the right lady - or at least the right lady who wasn't married at the time (I know, what a drag when you have morals). I try to stay in shape mentally and physically, and while outer beauty is certainly important to me, it means absolutely nothing if there is no substance behind it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a writer, editor and professional talker. I cover sports, mostly fantasy sports actually (I know, aren't you all super impressed now). Don't worry though, I'm not addicted to it like a crack addict, in fact, I rarely talk about sports when not working so don't worry about being quizzed on a guy's batting average. I'm always looking to better myself as well --- it's never too late to learn a better way to do things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finger painting.
Carrying on a conversation.
I can cook - with a microwave.
Trivia games.
Making people laugh.
Walking.
Eating pizza.
Solving problems.
Reaching high shelves.
Wearing costumes and decorating for Halloween.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, either that or that I seem to instantly be able to make someone feel comfortable and relaxed. You know, I'm that person that everyone asks directions for. The one who is always asked to help to get a can of pears for an old lady at the grocery store. I'm that guy. Probably the height though - but it's not like I'm a giant or anything (6'3" --- and a 1/2 if you want to get technical).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love movies - TCM on cable is great showing all the old flicks - Stewart, Bogart, Hepburn etc.

I also like horror flicks. Nothing can compare to the original Halloween by John Carpenter (much better than the Rob Zombie remakes). I also like to watch the old horror classics. As you might guess, Halloween is one of my favorite times of the year. Oh, and when I say horror I mean scary, not that it has to have 14 buckets of blood flying all over the place.

Archer, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia are two of my favorite shows. Also watch Chuck and Supernatural.

Favorite books? Love the Dan Brown stuff, and the Bourne novels by Ludlum were rockstar too.

Music, just depends on my mood. I can go for American Songbook stuff (Sinatra, Bennett), a bit harder with a group like Nickelback, groove with some Jill Scott, or even throw down to some 2PAC or Eminem.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family.
Friends.
TiVo.
The sun.
My computer (unfortunately).
Bacon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life?

I try to be introspective without being a total drag. I feel it's a good idea to know where you have been, and why you made the choices that you made so that you are better able to surmount any issues that arise moving forward.

At the same time, I think about goofy stuff too like - why should I make my bed in the morning if I'm just going to mess it up at night?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably drunk on my couch. Now if that isn't a huge selling point...

Usually I try to spend a Friday night with friends over a good meal. When I'm fortunate enough, I might even have the pleasure of being with an attractive, intelligent woman as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How about that I used to watch Smallville - that CW show about Superman. (I can just hear the ladies running for the exits now). Luckily, the series is now over, so you won't have to worry about me not being able to go out on Friday nights.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like to meet an interesting, sincere, somewhat charming, "nice guy." I know, that term is a curse, but really, shouldn't that be the basis of getting to know someone - that they are a nice person? I'm more than willing to put my heart out there --- are you?