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  • Ages 35-55
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My self-summary
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My profile picture is from March, 2013. I used to have very long hair but I lost that when I was treated for Cancer. Fortunately I am now in remission and I am totally Cancer-free for two years!

I have been married twice (7 yrs & 16 yrs) and I used to work as a Principal Broker Realtor. My two children are grown and on their own.

I am quite happy with myself and I like to spend time alone so I am not in any way feeling that life is incomplete without you. And, at the same time, I do miss the closeness and physical/emotional pleasure of an intimate relationship. I am very tactile and I like to touch and be touched - I miss that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been mostly retired for the past 10 years. I spend a lot of time at home exercising (aerobics, weights, cal esthetics, etc), playing the guitar & ukulele, reading, seeing friends, and sunning in the backyard. I like to attend summer festivals, go international traveling, play golf, skiing, computer,TV, movies, etc.

I also am working hard on maintaining my health, making sure that the Cancer does not return. I also am working on growing as an individual and evolving as a spiritual being (I am not religious at all).

I am just beginning a new business (May 2014). I will be opening a medical marijuana dispensary.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding my way around; getting a good parking space; being a friend; teaching an idea; hanging out at the beach; making you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be my long, curly hair. Now maybe my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot and have many favorite authors as well as favorite books:
James Clavel - Nobel House, Shogun, etc
Gary Zukav, The Seat of the Soul, Spiritual Relationships, etc
Don Migueel Ruiz, The Four Agreements
Victor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
I also read a lot of fiction (mysteries & thrillers), psychology, physics & philosophy.

I watch many movies and have favorite stars & directors, as well as favorite films:
Paul Newman, Hud, Hombre, Cool Hand Luke,etc.
Steve McQueen, Cinncinatti Kid, Bullett, The Great Escape, etc.
Martin Scorsese, Clint Eastwood, Stephen Speilberg, Woody Allen, etc.

I watch TV and have many favorite shows:
Modern Family, Bill Mahr, Lost, Entourage, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, etc

I love music and listen a lot. I grew up on classic rock and roll:
The Stones, the Who, The Beatles, Eric Clapton, etc.
I really love the San Fransico early rock scene with the Dead, the Jefferson Airplane, Janis Joplin, etc.
I also listen to folk: Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Eric Anderson, Donovan,
Bluegrass: David Grisman, Tony Rice, Mark Marshal, Yonder Mountain String Band.
I took guitar lessons with Scott law for a few years.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sun
My guitar
a good book
the beach
the TV
some friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The evolution of my soul; what do I still want to accomplish in life, if anything; where I should travel next;
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays are no different to me than any other day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I already told you that I have Cancer. There are a few more things to learn about me and this isn't the proper place. I will say that I enjoy living a transparent life and I do not believe in keeping secrets. All questions get answered.
You should message me if
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If you feel some resonance with me, or find me attractive. Hopefully it is because you wish to kiss me.