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57 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:14am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a laid back, creative woman, tolerant and easy-going. I am kind and compassionate, caring and non-judgmental. I've reached a point in my life where I'm sure about what's really important - relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. I can be passionate and devoted to the right man, one who wants to be my best friend and will always have my back.

Interestingly, my "personality" tab suggests that I'm slightly more old-fashioned than the average okcupid user. Hell, I don't think I'm old-fashioned. Although I do still embarrass my 21 year son sometimes, so maybe I am ;-).
What I’m doing with my life
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Just finished law school and took the bar "exam" this July - in quotes because "exam" doesn't quite sum up that particular . . . experience. This is my "third career" out of the three we're all now supposed to have over the course of our lives. Last academic year I worked full-time as a paid prosecutorial intern in a local county courthouse. I love criminal law work and am very good at it, which to me means being able to defend equally as well as prosecute. I'm grateful to have found a profession that will keep me engaged and interested for the rest of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things, which I'll be happy to share once I get to know you. Two things that have shaped me since I was a very young child: dance and art. I was actually a professional fine artist in my semi-youth. I say "professional" in the sense that I'm well trained as a painter, and spent many years painting - not "professional" in the sense that I ever made much money out of it ;-).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea . . . my smile? my eyes? my brains? That's what I notice about me anyway. I should probably ask my friends about this one of these years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: good non-fiction/investigative journalism, modern day noir mysteries (some great and gritty Irish and Brit series out there right now), well researched and well written historical novels. A good mystery set in another time and place is the best of both worlds. I read Harper's and the Atlantic for current events, despite the fact that the Atlantic sometimes irritates the hell out of me when they get too pompous. The articles are still relatively well researched and explored. I love good graphic novel series. Good noir graphic novel series - Scalped, The Boys, 100 Bullets - top my list, what a surprise ;-).

Movies: I tend to watch good series tv these days more often than I go to the movies. Old favorites are The Wire, Mad Men, Deadwood, Southland. Current faves: True Detective, Sons of Anarchy, Homeland, American Horror Story, Ray Donovan, and Boardwalk Empire. Love Steve Buscemi - great actor. Though he is kinda funny lookin.

Love all types of food as long as it's good, love spicy. Draw the line at insects and certain internal organs though.

I have eclectic musical tastes that range through time and genre. I don't like today's pop music though. All sounds the same to me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son
The rest of my wonderful family
My friends
Coffee, the elixir of life
My restless, curious brain
A sense of serenity
Whoops, that's seven. Oh well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we (humans) are all here on the planet, and the unique path each person is on.

How important it is to maintain a sense of balance in one's life - philosophically, physically, intellectually, and emotionally.

How blessed and lucky I feel when it comes to all the really important things - family, friends, outlook on life, feeling at peace with myself , and being able to go with the flow more often than not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days? Usually relaxing at home with a good book or dvd. I'm also happy to go out to dinner or listen to music with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wouldn't be private anymore then, would it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are self-aware, intelligent, and comfortable in your own skin, and are secure and confident enough to want the same in a woman.

You understand that real intimacy is about mutual chemistry, companionship, openness, and respect - ie, a deep friendship. And also that you know that sex is SO much better when coupled with that.