Capable, smart, driven, confident, a introvert who's a learned extrovert, passionate, caretaker, a doer, a mother, daughter, sister, friend, widow, conversationalist, instigator, playmate, lover, helper.

Getting my boys raised and out the door toward their own exciting journey...running a healthcare technology company...working out, eating right and staying healthy....spending time with friends and family...looking for someone to kayak with....Hiking or salsa dancing when the spirit moves me!

Lots of stuff...aren't we all?

I've been told its my smile and my eyes....

I'm a soul/motown, pop, rock, jazz, blues, country kind of girl...I like House, CSI, Smash, and most anything on HGTV....love movies except I can't handle horror (is there room on your lap?)...I enjoy reading immensely but notice lately that I am reading "lighter" material in my spare time....must be a defensive maneuver after reading work-related stuff all day.

My boys
A problem to solve
Touch
Satisfying my curiosity
Dancing
Hope

The really big things...life and death; how short life is and how i need to live in the moment...happiness.....is there anyone not happy in my world and how can I help change that....love....how precious it is and how grateful I am to have it in my life....friendship.....the women and men I laugh with, cry with, get a little crazy with.....health...another precious thing we should never take for granted....And then the not so big things...is it time to get the oil changed?.....wonder if anybody wants Japenese for dinner?....wonder if I can slip in some strength training and be a little late for work?...(wink, smile)

Out to eat with family or friends or off to a movie, game or play.

That's why it's private. Get to know me and it may not be anymore....

you'd like to chat....see where it goes....One more thing...please don't be lying about any of the big things...i.e. marital status, etc....in my opinion that is not a great way to start off a new friendship /relationship/ whatevership.....