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StarsAndLightng

40 F San Carlos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:56pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Caring, passionate, quirky, direct, stylish girl seeks funny, caring, passionate, dynamic man!

My present and my future include the following moments:

- hikes with the dog
- kid and dog day trips
- spontaneous overnights in SF, Half Moon Bay
- pancakes & waffles
- large family lunches on the patio
- shopping designer discount
- jogging along the bay lands

My future may include a few more international trips, but I can't take the dog and it's too far. So I'm not a world traveller! Id love to do a road trip across the southwest (again!) or cross country, eating at all the high-rated truck stop diners. Or staying a night at the Awahnee in Yosemite.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been separated for 2.5 years, but should be finishing the last pieces soon.

My personal interests include my dog walking/cafe/magazine routine, vintage and new clothes shopping, jogging, cooking and reading fiction. I love weekend days where I hardly see my house and also mornings when I don't leave the house.

I'm also pretty competitive... Perfect partner would also be competitive (tennis, card games, Mah Jong, running, anything) and be able to laugh at how serious and goofy they are.

Working hard at my government job! Love the work I do and the stability. Leaves a good part of weekends for relaxing and enjoying life. Please no workaholics!
I’m really good at
Finding peace in the midst of frenzy. Expressing how I feel in a way that doesn't hurt others. Making time for those I love and those that need me.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my laugh :). I've been described more than a couple times as "hyper" and also "chill"... I think those are my 2 basic settings :). I can get hyper when I'm excited or on deadline or have a productive spurt. I'm chill when I'm where I need to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Always reading some work of fiction. Read Time, fashion mags, People :) Watch very little TV. Love music (Sam Smith and 80s synth pop--- Yaz/Pet Shop Boys--- are my favorites right now). Like watching movies if the movie is amazing, otherwise would rather enjoy someone's company (watching at home allows for both). Like all kinds of food, healthy/greasy, ethnic, and fine dining. Like ordering the thing on the menu that pushes the culinary envelope.
The six things I could never do without
Dogs, jeans, boots, coffee, sunroof, radio.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Challenges of discipline and guidance (parenting)
- Saving money
- Self growth
- Being happy and in the present
- Finding my soul mate
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually making a simple dinner and finding something fun to do with my kid, who I usually have on Friday nights :). When I have a free night, I would love to eat dinner out and walk around in the warm night air and enjoy each other's company. Also, watching a movie at home or just reading together.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are open to love (no commitment phobes or workaholics), adventurous, optimistic, expressive, and love dogs and kids.