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40 F San Carlos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs

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My self-summary
I'm animated, sincere and honest, compassionate, communicative but not overly chatty. I like being a part of conversations that are funny, problem solving, or deep. I also really like being quiet together. I tend to care deeply for those who are in my life and am very committed to them. I am very close to family, have a handful of really good friends, and I love my kid and my dog most of all. The best times are when I can get everyone I love to hang out together in a relaxed environment! That's what makes me happy. I'm a very straight shooter. I don't manipulate and I don't play games. I am very affectionate. I am very loyal.

I believe in being kind, being green, and in fulfilling commitments. Half my life is filled with responsibility and structure, but I try to have the most fun possible no matter what I'm doing, with craziness ensuing frequently :). There's a part of me that just doesn't care what people think :)
What I’m doing with my life
I've been separated for 2 years, but should be finishing the last pieces soon.

My personal interests include my dog walking/cafe/magazine routine, vintage and new clothes shopping, learning tennis, cooking and reading fiction. I love to wander and explore. I like to take weekends easy and be productive when necessary (help out family or friends or shop for things I need).... A leisurely stroll is a gift!

I'm pretty competitive... Perfect partner would also be competitive (tennis, card games, running, anything) and be able to laugh at how serious and goofy they are.
I’m really good at
being a good mother, sister, friend... Prioritizing, being loyal, acting according to my conscience.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my laugh :). I've been described more than a couple times as "hyper" and also "chill"... I think those are my 2 basic settings :). I can get hyper when I'm excited or on deadline or not quite satisfied so I'm working to make it perfect... I'm chill when I'm happy and content or have convinced myself to just let it go....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
On my IPod: Modest Mouse, Alicia Keys, Drake, Bon Iver, Pixies, John Mayer.

Radio: KFOG, NPR, Top 40.

TV: New Girl, Modern Family, Phineas and Ferb.

Movies: Like the meaningful or romantic ones.... Not into horror, slap stick, or action :). But love movies, old and new... Perfect way to spend a Friday or Sunday night...

Reading: Bazaar, Vanity Fair, Time, People, Sunset, fiction. On that note....My dream life would be to live out all the pictures in Sunset a renovated (or not) craftsman bungalow with drought tolerant landscaping and a dog on the porch.... Taking weekend trips to BBQ fairs and the CA coastline... Cooking some of the recipes... And sitting outside under the stars :).
The six things I could never do without
Dogs, jeans, boots, coffee, sunroof, radio.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Saving money. To buy/rent my bungalow, put money in my kid's 529 plan, and my retirement (!!!). Never thought I'd be this responsible!

- Self growth (improving communication, accepting without judgement).

- Being happy and in the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually making a simple dinner and finding something fun to do with my kid and dog... When I am free, I like to drive to SF and spend the night with my cousin in the Sunset, have breakfast and power walk on the beach.... Ahhhhhh......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love karaoke but I can't really sing very well :). But I sing with heart!!! Just cover your ears or turn the background up :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You enjoy kids, dogs and like the outdoors, have an easy smile and laugh, communicate openly about life and feelings, are optimistic and supportive.
You are done with being-busy-for-the-sake-of-being-busy, ready to slow down, and calm the mind.... You are interested in finding the right person (a peer and partner) and building something together.