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51 M Mayfair, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Happy, polite, motivated, compassionate & creative British guy living in Central London. Enjoying the journey and ready to discover a whole lot more.

After a fairly frenetic period of "dating" (the past is vast lol), seems like I'm close as I'll ever be to "life-partner-ready"! Feeling a bit similar? Let's meet & watch some good chemistry start! We'll know fairly instantly if it's right!

I try to answer all initial messages, it would be respectful if you could answer mine (or block), please don't just ignore as there is no way to tell a msg has been read. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Feel like I'm in absolute prime time: internationally published author, media freelancer/producer but also not taking it too seriously when the moment's right. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over-exagering what I'm good at! Lol!

Apart from being passionate about my work/books/projects, really love yoga (try and go 3 or 4 times a week) and staying fit and eating pretty healthy food. (& perhaps enjoying a tad too much red wine!).

Not bad at making a good healthy meal either and can be quite practical with making other stuff.

Travel as much as possible but also like simple things: country walks/open air (especially when it's warm & sunny!)/meal with mates/bit of intriguing TV and occasional comedy etc.

Generally easy going and adaptable but with the odd thing that cheeses me off like anyone (see questions). :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is how short I am compated to them! Lol!

Also some people say in a dim light that don't really (yet) look quite as old as the wizened years I've amassed! :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Health, eyesight, hearing
* Great tasty healthy food,
* Sunshine & warmth
* A roof overhead when it isn't
* Enough to live on
...and this amazing handheld computer that connects us to the world!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* Transport
* Design
* Architecture
* Cartography
* Typography
* Sustainable development
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday - happy to discover new and unusual things
You should message me if
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Any of this resonates