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32 Astoria, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:38am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I LIKE: idle banter, laughing & making others laugh, vanilla protein shakes with banana and peanut butter, brutal honesty, pleasant surprises, live music, culture (MoMA, Met), writing poetry, coding (building stuff that matters), dancing.

I AM: A passionate, assertive, risk taker, who lives in the moment and loves telling new fun stories. I have the curiosity of an 8 year old, the responsibilities of a 40 year old and the desire to have fun of a 16 year old. My random knowledge of psychology, technology, science gives me a sometimes nerdy vibe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
.... more than I should... not as much as I want... I am a digital strategist and consultant. I do a lot of public speaking on topics like fundraising, technology and entrepreneurship. I am recovering politico, still peripherally involved. I sit on the Board of Directors of a nonprofit and I occasionally write articles about social media/tech/charity that get published places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing. Spelunking. Killing bugs/spiders that have unlawfully entered an apartment. Meeting people on the bus/subway. Having deep conversation with strangers, or on a first date.
t h i n k i n g
o u t o f
t h e b o x
Waxing philosophical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a lot of comments about having "good energy."
After that, my blue eyes. Why don't you tell me when we meet?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Alchemist, The Prophet, Tipping Point (or anything Malcolm Gladwell), The Power Broker: Robert Moses and the Fall of New York

Music: Radiohead, Florence & the Machine, Jimi Hendrix, Santana, Notorious BIG, Orff, DJ Micro, Etta James, Ella Fitzgerald (there is so much more)

TV Shows: Game of Thrones, How I met your Mother, Lost, TED Talks

Movies: Sleepwalk With Me, The Fairy, Braveheart, Groundhog Day, Memento, Barbarella, Lost in Translation

Food: Thai, Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Italian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meaning, impact, family, friends, laughter, challenge.

Wait... am I supposed to talk about my possessions?
Give me a laptop, dental floss, a box of special K, a slinky and a swiss army knife and I will break out of a prison.

Or just leave me a laptop and an internet connection and I will never be bored.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gym/more sleep? where can I find my next coffee? The meaning of life, the universe and everything (reference anyone)? am I going to make that subway that is arriving now (I usually do)?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I take a 3 hour hip hop dance class every Friday. I know... You look at me and you think "he definitely fits the stereotypical hip hop dancer."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Deep down... I am more than you think... I am... Wait... If I put it on OkCupid would it really count as something private? They are so tricky with all of their questions!!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are overall a positive and optimistic person.

You are compassionate towards others.

You are comfortable being a sensual woman.

You are not afraid of speaking your mind. Communication is the heart of a successful relationship. I am pretty intuitive, but I haven't mastered the mind reading thing yet :)

You are attracted to ambitious men with busy lives.

You take care of yourself, but are not obsessed with your looks.

Bonus points if you are intellectual, artistically talented, or you want to change the world, or feel it is important to give back.