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Stathgar

23 / M / gay / Single

Boulder, Colorado

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
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Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
—
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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I am well-meaning, quirky, and ambitious.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a musician, ambitious computer programmer, and too many other things to list. Different people see different sides of me; the straight-faced professional, the outgoing comedian, the awkward guy in the corner, or the music-obsessed DJ who goes wild on a dance floor. Life is crazy and so am I. All I'm missing is someone I love to come along for the ride.
Now in German
(Entschuldigung, mein Deutsch ist schlecht.) Ich bin Musiker, Computerprogrammierer, und närrisch. Bitte lesen sie meinen Steckbrief auf Englisch wenn sie können.
Now in Spanish
(Perdóname, mi español es malo.) Me amo música y computadores, y soy extraño. Por favor lea mi perfil Inglés si posible.

What I’m doing with my life

I just graduated from Clemson and got my B.S. in Computer Science. Now I'm working as a "software engineer" for a small company here in Boulder. I'm new to the area, so I have yet to get a social life or figure out what I like to do here, but at least my living room isn't a giant stack of boxes anymore.

I’m really good at

It depends on who you ask. I would like to think I'm good at programming, singing, dancing, and drawing, but that's debatable.

The first things people usually notice about me

People will usually first see me as either loopy and outspoken, or very shy. It all depends on setting. The superficial people will notice "my god, that man is skinny."

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Food: Hashbrowns and bacon. Simple American food.

Music (Electronica): David Guetta, September, Royal Gigolos, Ladytron, BT

Music (Rock): Spacehog, Papas Fritas, Cake, The Dandy Warhols, Vixtrola

Music (Other): Kylie Mingoue, Modern Talking

Movies: Murder by Death, The Fifth Element, Star Trek (most of them), The Devil Wears Prada, Ocean's Eleven, Howl's Moving Castle

Books: The Unexpected Ms. Pollifax, Dune, I, Robot

The six things I could never do without

1. Music 2. Potatoes 3. Computers 4. Hot showers 5. Someone to talk to 6. Internet access

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future, ethics, business ideas, awkward social encounters, music, fantasies

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting at a computer and listening to techno. Or, sometimes at a dance club listening to techno.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I know I shouldn't be, but I'm picky about appearance. That is to say, if I don't find someone attractive I'm probably not going consider a relationship. Maybe that makes me a bad person, but it's not something I can easily change.

You should message me if

If you're straight-edge, out-of-the-ordinary, and interested in a crazy guy like me, I would love to hear from you. Common interests are a huge bonus (electronica, computers, science fiction, furries, etc.)

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