My wife has found herself a serious girlfriend that she has chosen to focus on. At this point she isn't available as noted below, but I continue to actively search for a serious companion of my own.
I am in am open marriage with my wife of over five years and am looking for a woman with whom I / we connect well on multiple levels. While previously OKCupid was primarily used to look for someone *I* would mostly spend time with, we have most recently decided to look more for somebody we can both enjoy. (Not meant in a purely sexual manner, of course!) Essentially, we would ideally like to make a friend friend of many facets.
Beyond that, here are a few tidbits of fun info about me:
I am unapologetically geeky, frequently verbose, unabashedly optimistic, very excitable, and possess a great sense of humor which I constantly employ to its fullest.
I'm a musician who can play multiple instruments and has an appreciation for good music, regardless of genre.
I have the distinct ability to hold conversations comprised almost entirely of movie and TV quotes.
I tend to be very talkative and goofy, but don't mistake that for immaturity. Well, not TOO much, anyway. Despite all of this, I occasionally have patches of shyness. Go figure.
I'll do my best to make you laugh as much as possible.
I do not chase. If you're into playing hard-to-get game, take them to another playground.
I don't mind at all if you are a religious person. I DO, however, mind if you are preachy, if you hold any illusions whatsoever about converting me, or if you use your religion to justify bigotry of any sort. That is simply the mark of a morally small person and not exactly a desirable trait.