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33 Cologne, Germany Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:29am
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I see myself as intelligent, funny, sometimes a little bit slow, anti-racist/sexist/homophobia/general-hate, over confident, insecure, polyamorous, loyal, honest, sarcastic, empathic, queer in some strange ways, balanced, in a love-hate relationship with cliches, happy with my life, planless, hedonistic, sometimes paradoxic and generally a nice person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I studied philosophie for a really long time and finally dropped out of Uni. One of the best decisions of my life. Philosophie can now be a hobby of mine.
Now i am self employed and work only as much as i want to. Work is not a very big part of my life, but i like my job.
Mostly i spend my life listening to and making music. Right now i have three band project with which i play concerts all over europe. One Fastcore/Powerviolence-, one Crust-DBeat-Metal- and on Synthie-Pop-Band. When i am not busy with that i love to travel, try to help organizing political stuff in in my local HC Scene, spend some alone time with a good book or Reddit, spend time with my friends, having endless meaningfull conversations about totally deep stuff, and drinking lots and lots of coffee.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating, listening, solving problems, chill, argue, making Espresso/Cappuccino. Stuff like that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was told that, when i first meet new people i seem to need some time to get warm. Thats not because i am not interested, but because sometimes it's not that easy to play outside of ones comfort zone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Annie Hall, Stalker, Indiana Jones and Star Wars Trilogies, Wes Andersond and Lars von Trier works and a thousand more.

Books: Houllebecq, Haruki Murakami, Vonnegut, Pelevin, Bulgakov, Palahniuk

Music: Old School Hardcore like Minor Threat, some Grindcore and Fastcore like Yacöpsae or Infest, cheesy Dubstep and House like Deadmau5, Torquex or Downlink, over dramatic piano pop like Amanda Palmer or Regina Spektor, some Indie Bands like Interpol The Good Life or Strand of Oaks. Lately i start to get into folk rock like The Frightened Rabbit oder the Mountain Goats. Right now I am really into Les Trucs. So in general i listen to almost everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
Free time
Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become a happy, complete person. I'm working on that really hard for some time now and i am making progress.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends. Maybe i will go out with some friends, visit a concert, or rehearse with one of my bands.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Since OKCupid forced new relationship categories upon us, i am not in an "open relationship". I am in a polyamorous relationship. So I am not just looking for people to have sex with, but i am looking for cool, intersting people i can share common interests with.
You should message me if
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If you can laugh about this:
or this:
, can see the irony and after reading these don't think i am anti-feminist (you would be surprised how often people misread these comics)