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Stebbias21

28 / M / gay / Seeing someone

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
—
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, random, and realistic.

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My Self-Summary

I am in a great relationship and am looking for friends in NYC. I was born and raised in MI, spent a few years in Va and then had my twink years in FL. I have been in NY since 2003 but living in NYC just within the last year. Not sure what else to say, so if interested in being friends say "hi"...

What I’m doing with my life

I work a full time job 6 days a week so no time for much else... needless to say I am looking for something better. I am looking at culinary schools in NYC because I love cooking and making people happy through food. That is one dream other then my passion for writing... if more is needed to know then you should ask I am honest.

I’m really good at

Interjecting random thoughts into conversations to stir up ideas... I enjoy making people think and question me or themselves. On a good day I am quick witted and sarcastic, on my off days I'm just brutal in my words... lol... I believe Tact is for those who are not Witty enough to be Sarcastic

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and then my personality... I am a good friend and loyal to those whom I trust... which are few and far between

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything I can get lost in, be it fiction or non

Movies: I love horror films, adventure and dramatic comedies

Music: All kinds except rap, country or heavy metal... I perfer acappella's

The six things I could never do without

My pen, my metro card, my BF, pictures of my mom, my memories, and my knack for random-ness

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Just ideals that occur in my daily life and how they seem to happen just for me

On a typical Friday night I am

working till midnight at the moment

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I love men... lol

You should message me if

you wanna know more about me

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