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Stefan2013

58 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m looking for an open-minded, inquisitive, independent companion to share outings, travel, adventures, and growth (personal and together) that enriches both of our lives. I'm looking for a fun and deep connection on many levels.

I have a enthusiasm for life, trying to be fully in the present while I can't deny that I'm excited about what's ahead. I find peace in nature, art, great thoughts...things that expand my horizons and offer new perspectives. I'm sometimes playful, sometimes deep, usually open-minded, mostly curious, a bit unconventional and always dependable. Healthy and fit, I believe in taking care of my body. I enjoy the gym, hiking, yoga, bicycling and so on.

I enjoy people who laugh easily, can carry on conversation about a number of things and who are appreciative of how good most of us have it in this time and place in history and the world.

I’m a big fan of outdoor music festivals and concerts, and other events that are so plentiful in the summer. I also like to get out of town on day trips and overnighters. Being near water is a high priority. (I’m always looking for a lake swim on a warm day.) I’m looking to travel a lot more in the years ahead, in the states, Latin America, Thailand, Europe, etc.

I’m an optimist who ultimately finds humor - or lessons - in most things including the hardships along the way. I recently had one: a severe car crash but it changed my life in interesting and positive ways. I'm amazed at my recovery.

I've always seen profundity in the mundane and awe in the mystery of life. I find that my passion for life has not dimmed with the years. I want to be intrigued emotionally, intellectually, and aesthetically.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Balancing living in the present, fully enjoying my current life...with planning and having fun anticipation for the years ahead. I can afford to take off some time from a working life. I'm excited about all my future possibilities while staying grounded in the present.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening well
thoughtfulness
laughing easily
expressing myself
taking care of myself
enjoying myself in many situations
cooking a delicious and nutritious meal for a friend
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall, lean, bald, easy smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Beck, Black Uhuru, Bob Dylan, Casandra Wilson, Duke Ellington, Gotan Project, Handel, Led Zeppelin, Neil Young (& Crazy Horse), Sarah Vaughan, Satie, Sleater-Kinney, Talking Heads, Telemann, Vivaldi, White Stripes, Brazilian, Blue Note jazz, reggae, plus a whole bunch more.

Passionate about songs in many genres but in movies, my taste isn't as wide (favorites are usually with richly-drawn characters), and I watch no television (not a snob about this though) Besides listening to much music, I also read a lot, and have a handful of podcasts that I listen to.

At home: Vegetables prepared in a multitude of ways, fish, and, in moderation, modest amounts of well-sourced poultry and meat plus a nice variety of other healthy things. Out: quite flexible but partial to Thai, Tex-Mex, and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Fun deep banter
2. Music
3. Sensuous appreciation of life
4. Exercise
5. Healthy and tasty food
6. Quiet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I believe that I've written plenty already :-) Please see the above sections: there is a lot in there that I do spend time thinking about.

But, regularly, I want to spend less time thinking as well (quieting my mind.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing typical. I could be with a friend at home or out, at the gym, out to eat by myself, at the gym, doing a project at home, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing to invest an hour or two walking with me at one of the beautiful parks around here. I find that this is the most comfortable way of meeting (and most agree.) It may be the start of something big or not but at the very least, it will be an interesting connection.

You can stay open to someone who has lots of possibilities ahead, comfortably situated in all ways - and at the same time, open to any number of paths.