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StellaMarisPDX

53 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am warm-hearted, grounded, creative, and brave.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- enjoying embodiment
- sharing my gifts
- dancing with spirit
- following my weird
- making love, community, art, magic, and pickles
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making a good meal out of random ingredients
- cooking for large numbers of people (like 150)
- collaboration and improvisation
- inhabiting ecstatic states
- rowing whitewater
- editing and writing
- integrating dualities
- screwing around on the Internet
- empathetic listening and giving pep talks
- getting people to help me with my projects and enjoy it
- singing, sometimes in front of others, more or less on key
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Big girl, snappy dresser, warm smile, clear voice, firm handshake
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Always Coming Home
Little, Big
Out of Africa
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek
the Tao Te Ching
the Aubrey and Maturin books

Movies:
Lawrence of Arabia
A Thousand Clowns
The Lion in Winter

Shows:
No TV, but I watch Mad Men online. Also Six Feet Under, The Sopranos, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, and of course Portlandia.

Music:
Funky stuff
Divas
Sacred music
World music
Anything where people are singing their asses off

Food:
I believe that every time you eat something you've never had before, you add 75 days to your life. I relish smoked fish, ripe mangoes, strong coffee, homemade ferment, Bufalo chipotle, greens from the garden, asparagus, Oregon berries, the meat of our friend the pig, and pure wholesome butter. I like just about everything else, too, except for sea urchin roe and food that tastes bad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
breath
water
food
kindness
friends
sky
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next right thing to do
The Tao of striving and surrender
How to practice
What the imaginary people in the computer are talking about
How to shine my light without burning out
How to make my home more beautiful and orderly
What's going on with my community and the people I love
Upcoming projects and fun events
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home with housemates at our weekly community potluck
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm culturally queer, pretty kinky, and loyally polyamorous.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 35–84
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you are a mensch of any sex
- you are sapiosexual
- you appreciate gender as an art form
- you like big butts and you cannot lie
- you go for dykey chicks
- you yourself are somewhat on the freaky side