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a dreamgirl; a fairy; Queen of stars
a guy, as soon as he realizes his dream mate in front of him: "She
is the Stella of my dreams!"
noun. crack - shot
A kinkster, a witch, a nerd, a badass. I'm from NYC. I'm poly and
live with my partner (a cis dude.) All pronouns are good for me. I
like going on dates.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Entering super-saiyan mode.
I teach afterschool Making STEM projects with elementary school
kids, and at a different job, I'm a sex educator.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading tarot cards, reading comic books, cooking without a
cookbook, cooking for lots of people, using my imagination.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Stella, your fly is open."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A Night at the Opera
The Man who Fell in Love with The Moon by Tom Spanbauer
Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman
Invitation to a Beheading by Nabokov
Ready Player One by Ernest Cline
Zone One by Colson Whitehead
Geek Love by Katherine Dunn
Guardians of the Galaxy
Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead
T Rex Trying http://trextrying.tumblr.com
Blake, Keats, Poe.
Wolfgang Puck, Lidia, Alton Brown.
Misfits (the show)
Game of Thrones
Mushrooms, avocados, cilantro, peaches, big bowls of noodles,
smoothies, kombutcha, apples, and all the fancy kinds of
The Slingshot at Coney Island.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, my cats, my houseplants
My wonderful friends
Teaching myself how to do that new, fantastic thing!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't enough time to be as interested in everything as I'd
like. Either at a party or playing Dungeons and Dragons.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The more I grow up, the more I understand that adulthood is a
chance to 1) not be a douche 2) do everything you could not do as a
child for whatever reason, but want to do now.
You should message me if
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Your life runs best when you communicate well.
You only spend your time on people who treat you excellently, and
you treat them excellently too.
You can get really exited about being a nerd AND you think misogyny
You don't smoke. I just quit after 12 years.
You are not racist, transphobic, homophobic, or a big
You will let me pick your brain about science, technology or
history. Brains are delicious.
You are not trying to be cool. I'm not a cool kid and I love that
Your perfect second date includes an activity and is not just
getting a drink or a food thing. Let's go to the gym or museum or
park or book-store. (Unless you are a foodie and we are going to go
eat baller/unusual/authentic/etc food. I'm down with that kind of
You can have fun sober. I know our generation is supposed to drink
a lot and do a lot of drugs, but I'm either allergic to it or I
find it frightfully boring. When I want to indulge, I prefer going
to the sauna.
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