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StephAndTheSea

30 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:25am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I walk everywhere when I have time to. I get lost easily, which is mostly a good thing.

I love this city, even if it seems like it's in kind of a funk right now.

I've fed my recent obsession with plants by creating a pretty sweet indoor garden, mostly comprised of succulents.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I'm a graphic designer, and often by night I'm…still a graphic designer. I work at a small studio downtown, do some freelance stuff on the side, and am slowly pecking away at my master's thesis. I went back to school for design after working in galleries and museums for a few years, so it's a newish venture for me. So far so good. Sometimes I work on sciencey things, sometimes salami packaging--the variety is awesome, plus I like having a little structure for my creative urges.
I’m really good at
Finding the bright side, making inappropriate jokes, knowing a little about a lot, flaring my nostrils, making to-do lists, going off-list, learning a new language and then forgetting it, throwing a bunch of stuff into a pot and making it taste pretty decent, keeping my mouth shut about all the bad kerning in the world to laymen.
The first things people usually notice about me
Very often people tell me I look familiar. Other than that, my curly hair and genuine spirit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Whatever I'm reading, watching, listening to or eating right now, which happen to be:

The Winter of Our Discontent, by John Steinbeck
It's the kind of story that really sneaks up on you.

Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls, by David Sedaris
Whenever I read Sedaris, I hear his voice in my head, so this time I got the audiobook. So good.

I've made my way through the This American Life archives all the way back to the year 2000. Only a few more years to go, and I'm freaking out a little.

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly…oh Sergio
Also, 70s revenge flicks, like Death Wish and Point Blank

151a and 7" Singles, by Kishi Bashi
His rendition of the Talking Heads' "This Must be the Place" is one of those achingly beautiful things.

Beyond the Sea, by Monster Rally
Their music makes me feel like I'm on a tropical island, especially when I crank up the ol' space heater.

Too much TV.

As for food, I'm continually surprised at the sheer variety of meals that become epic with the addition of a fried egg.
The six things I could never do without
The people I love
Random adventures
Learning new things
Soft blankets
Physical affection
Funny pictures of cats on the internet
Anticipation
That's seven, sorry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to go on my next post-lunch urban hike; I end up at Coit tower a lot. Who will be playing at Montgomery station this morning (crossing my fingers it's not pan flute guy). What new form of exercise to try (over the summer it was windsurfing, go figure).
On a typical Friday night I am
I've been getting out a lot more lately, and I think it suits me. I will happily loose a pool game to you at a dive bar, but I could potentially beat you at foosball. I like good live music at small venues. I've also been known to dance, and some people think I'm pretty good at it. I'll sing at karaoke any night of the dang week, but I'm just as content cooking dinner with friends as we find the bottom of a good bottle of wine and bicker over a board game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I lived on a sailboat in Sausalito for a year and a half. I've been back on dry land for a little over a year now and am still thrilled to have a refrigerator again.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're creative! You've got charisma! And maybe you're a bit of a romantic.