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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:48am
Open relationship
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and laughing about it
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Nope, there isn't much here.

It's not that I don't have much to say or that there isn't much about me, it's just that what can a few words on a screen really say about someone. Probably get a better idea about me from reading the Q&A area, and have some laughs about some questions you may not have come across yourself yet.. Besides, it seems everyone has or heard about some 'horror story' about how someone seemed one way online but when met in person they were nothing like their profile says. So how much would you believe I write. I can tell you it's all true though. I will also say I prefer getting to know someone in person. You meet somewhere quiet and relaxed, share some laughs and stories and see how you get along. Something may or may not come from it but it's a start. Anything worthwhile in life takes some risk and effort and a relationship, be it friendly or intimate, is no exception.

A close friend told me that I was too picky in what I was looking for in someone. Perhaps I am, but when you're looking for someone to have that connection with you need to be sure it's the right person, right? It's even more complicated now as I have found someone I find very special and dear to me, and together we search for another to join our relationship, be it casually or more long term.

Yes, you read that correctly. I am in a relationship with someone, and together we are searching for another girl to join us. What we are looking for can be discussed if you are interested in an open or poly relationship with me or us. Otherwise, trying to describe exactly what we are looking for would be like describing a color to someone that could see before but is now blind - you have an idea of what I/we are looking for but your impressions may not be the same as mine or ours. Sure I have an ideal image but my description may not be interpreted the same, but in reality it may the close to what you are looking for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as an engineer at a job I really enjoy until my plans for world domination are complete and realized. Trying to enjoy what I can, when I can and pull others into it when possible. Working on my fitness goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning about anything I'm curious about.
Giving hugs
Listening and helping
Making things - Mundane to twisted
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Asking a few friends I've gotten the following-
My eyes
A quiet demeanor that belies a stronger, more sure natured attitude and personality.
Ability to talk about just about anything, or at least seem to be able to. (aka BSing)
Quick wit/dry humor
I like to tease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot of technical material but trying to get back into more 'recreational' reading but authors and books I've read and enjoyed include - Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Tolkien (Hobbit/LOTR), John Norman's Gor series, Robert Ludlum, George R R Martin - A Song of Ice and Fire series (aka Game of Thrones), Michael Crichton, Lee Child, Arthur C Clark, Isaac Asimov, Laura Antoniou, Tristan Taormino

Not much for television but there are a few series I enjoy - Castle, Suits, Burn Notice, Archer, Justified, Face Off and the BBCs Sherlock and Being Human. Movies include the expected 'guy' flix (explosions, fights, special FX, etc), comedy (including the occasional Romantic Comedy), Pixar.

Music is hard to list as I like something from just about any genre and probably don't know the name/artist/origin of it if I'm asked. Classic to electronic, dance, swing/electric swing, club, classic rock, a bit of country. Like I said a bit of everything.

Food - Just about anything with some spice and flavor. I'll try just about anything to see what it taste like and will go from there. I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to trying something new.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Some quiet times (with a close someone and occasionally without)
Good Food
Good friends to share above mentioned food and laughs with
Intellectual conversation
Learning something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World domination to bring about world peace.....

Actually I'm always thinking about something but way to many things to try and list. Usually some issue at hand, along with some idea/device/invention I've come up with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully out with a friend or two, maybe a movie or treating myself to dinner somewhere.

There is always the humor of reading and answering the question OKC comes up with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty open about most things. Things I'm private about I definitely would not post here (it's hard enough getting it out of me in person).

I will admit this, not for the shock value I see on others but rather so there is no misunderstanding...I enjoy my kinky proclivities. Not really private as I will admit to it if asked, but details are withheld, and reading through my profile it becomes apparent.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You have a motorcycle (or would like to ride on one) and would like to go for a ride
-Want to make/enjoy some tasty food
-Have some fun and flirty times
-Open and looking for a poly relationship with a fun couple.
-You would like to explore the subtle differences between hemp and MFP rope
-Enjoy something besides or with your vanilla