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37 Westerly, RI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Nope, there isn't much here.

It's not that I don't have much to say or that there isn't much about me, it's just that what can a few words on a screen really say about someone. Probably get a better idea about me from reading the Q&A area. Besides, it seems everyone has or heard about some 'horror story' about how someone seemed one way online but when met in person they were nothing like their profile says. So how much would you believe I write. I can tell you it's all true though. I will say I prefer getting to know someone in person. You meet somewhere quiet and relaxed, share some laughs and stories and see how you get along. Something may or may not come from it but it's a start. Anything worthwhile in life takes some risk and effort and a relationship, be it friendly or intimate, is no exception.

A close friend recently told me that I was being too picky in what I was looking for in someone. Perhaps I am, but when you're looking for someone to have that connection with you need to be sure it's the right person, right? To find the right gem, you have to go thru a lot of work and muck to find it, but when you find that gem it's more precious than anything. Can I describe exactly what I'm looking for? About as well as describing a color to someone that could see before but is now blind. Sure I have an ideal image - Intelligent and witty, adventurous, bit sarcastic, open minded, tallish red haired kinky lady with an irish brogue or aussie accent that likes someone to take control. However, it is really just a balancing all of a person’s traits. Some have to be there and some are not so important.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as an engineer at a job I really enjoy until my plans for world domination are complete and realized. Trying to enjoy what I can, when I can and pull others into it when possible. Working hard on my fitness goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning about anything I'm curious about.
Giving hugs
Listening and helping
Making things - Mundane to twisted
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Asking a few friends I've gotten the following-
My eyes
A quiet demeanor that belies a stronger, more sure natured attitude and personality.
Ability to talk about just about anything, or at least seem to be able to. (aka BSing)
Quick wit/dry humor
I like to tease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot of technical material but trying to get back into more 'recreational' reading but authors and books I've read and enjoyed include - Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Tolkien (Hobbit/LOTR), John Norman's Gor series, Robert Ludlum, George R R Martin - A Song of Ice and Fire series (aka Game of Thrones), Michael Crichton, Lee Child, Arthur C Clark, Isaac Asimov, Laura Antoniou, Tristan Taormino

Not much for television but there are a few series I enjoy - Castle, Suits, Burn Notice, Archer, Justified, Face Off and the BBCs Sherlock and Being Human. Movies include the expected 'guy' flix (explosions, fights, special FX, etc), comedy (including the occasional Romantic Comedy), Pixar.

Music is hard to list as I like something from just about any genre and probably don't know the name/artist/origin of it if I'm asked. Classic to electronic, dance, swing/electric swing, club, classic rock, a bit of country. Like I said a bit of everything.

Food - Just about anything with some spice and flavor. I'll try just about anything to see what it taste like and will go from there. I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to trying something new.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Some quiet times (with a close someone and occasionally without)
Good Food
Good friends to share above mentioned food and laughs with
Intellectual conversation
Learning something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World domination to bring about world peace.....

Actually I'm always thinking about something but way to many things to try and list. Usually some issue at hand, along with some idea/device/invention I've come up with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully out with a friend or two, maybe a movie or treating myself to dinner somewhere.

There is always the humor of reading and answering the question OKC comes up with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty open about most things. Things I'm private about I definitely would not post here (it's hard enough getting it out of me in person). For the sake of this little part I'll admit to what was implied above - I'm kinky and have a proclivity for that lifestyle. It's not all I'm made of but it is a part of my life.
You should message me if
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-You have a motorcycle (or would like to ride on one) and would like to go for a ride
-Want to make/enjoy some tasty food
-Have some fun and flirty times
-Looking for someone to run the next Zombie run with
-You would like to explore the subtle differences between hemp and MFP rope
-Enjoy something besides or with your vanilla

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