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34 M Yukon, OK

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:12pm
White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I moved to the Oklahoma City area in late May (2013). I came here to start my career after finishing grad school.

I have fairly liberal views and am not religious, but I try to respect everyone's views and beliefs. The exceptions are homophobia, racism, or sexism so if any of these apply to you, move on.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a physical science tech doing research in an ag setting. I am basically a jack of all trades there, which is what I like, I tried hard to groom that image and not be too focused all through undergrad and grad schools. I received my Masters in environmental science from UNC last August, it took a few months to find a job, but I found one I think I will really like.

I spend a lot of my free time training in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay thai. In the past I have done several other martial arts, including Thai Chi, and have also done yoga on and off for a decade or so. I also enjoy many outside activities; if you know any places in a reasonable driving distance with some nice hilly, winding mtn bike trails, please let me know.

So, it's probably obvious I like staying active, but I also love to eat, so it balances out most of the time. I also love my hobbies, but I have a lazy side I like to hide whenever possible. I also love live music and am on the hunt for some cool bars and local bands to stalk. But really, a lot of evenings my laziness kicks in and I end up watching whatever scifi/fantasy show/movie strikes my fancy or I just do some gaming (am I too old for that?).
I’m really good at
Martial arts, music appreciation,
sarcasm, sleeping, eating, tech stuff...
Want to be better at: meeting new people, feeling more comfortable in awkward social situations, reading whole books without ridiculously long breaks in the middle...
Bad at: understanding the meaning of life...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm Short
have Red Hair
and Blue Eyes
Take your pick...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything Phillip K Dick, Margaret Atwood, Octavia Butler or Stephen King; One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest, The Electric Koolaid Acid Test, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, and most (well written) things Dystopian, Post Apocalyptic , or general Science Fiction. Unfortunately if I find a book a little boring, I probably won't finish it.

Movies: Donnie Darko, Down by Law, Wrist Cutters, Dead Man, Delicatessen, City of Lost Children, Red State, LOTR trilogy, Star Wars (original) trilogy, crazy social documentaries...

Shows: Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Farscape, Firefly, Star Trek TNG, Battlestar Galactica, Dollhouse, Dr Who

Music: (just a few of the important ones) Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Tom Waits, Fiona Apple, Murder by Death, Neutral Milk Hotel, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Wilco, Pink Floyd, Grateful Dead, Thelonious Monk, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Type O Negative, Opus, the Mountain Goats, the Black Keys, Jack White, Danger Doom, crazy experimental jazz and classical, a little bit of almost everything, really, and I am always looking for music that is new to me...

Food: anything made well with a good balance of flavors, but especially a myriad of different Asian foods and tomatoey-cheesey italian and almost anything with a kick (probably comes from the 4 years I spent in New Mexico for my undergrad)
The six things I could never do without
Close Friends/Family
Good Music
Good Food
Fresh Air
Running water*
A sense of purpose

*I love mountain streams and rivers... maybe Oklahoma wasn't the best choice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Will we end up with a post monetary society, or post apocalyptic world? If the latter, what will bring us there. Why are people seem so greedy and heartless sometimes? Why can't I eat whatever, whenever I want and not gain weight? Does my personality section on here scare you? Is it accurate? Should I lie when answering some of the questions? It just doesn't seem right...
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to stay entertained.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My pinky finger is slightly longer than my big toe.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I am co-opting this section for an extension of what "I'm looking for"

A person or persons to experience life and create amazing new memories with. Peculiarity and absurdity along with normality and redundancy. Future loves, friends, acquaintances, and enemies. Long conversations, short debates, and indefinite silences. Creation, destruction, and everything in between. Music, art, poetry, and, of course, drama. Life, living, and vitality; both exciting and anxious. All the uncertainties that go with these things.