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Stephen_Om

48 / M / Straight / Available

Bellevue, Washington

His Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hi, thanks for checking out my profile here. My name is Stephen, grew up in Michigan, grad school in Missouri, many years in south Florida and currently living in the Seattle area.

I am very happily married to the love of my life and primary partner, Taly_om. We have recently begun exploring an open, polyamorous relationship. I am only interested in meeting women who are also non-monogamous, are in some form of an open relationship or genuinely interested in pursuing that lifestyle and would like to learn and explore more about it. The incredible relationship I have with my wife is based on honesty, transparency, integrity, and consideration. To me, any new relationship I would pursue would also be built on these principles. I love my wife very much, but we both think it would be amazing to have an open marriage. I love the idea of having a primary partner and be given the opportunity to explore others openly. Ideally I would like to find someone who I can see on a regular to semi-regular basis. One night stands are not my thing and not at all what I'm looking for.

I am a down-to-earth, outgoing, culture and outdoor enthusiast. I enjoy hiking, snowboarding, travel, the arts, exploring cities, ecstatic dancing, trying new things, spending time with my family and friends, meeting new people and forming new relationships.

Health and fitness are very important to me. I have a constant thirst for knowledge and learning, and I love connecting with and getting to know other people. Enthusiastic and energetic by nature, my motto is that life is an acronym standing for: Life Is For Experiencing! This isn't a rehearsal so go for it and get the most out of it!
What I’m doing with my life
I am meeting some amazing new people, going on some great dates, having great experiences, forming lasting friendships and more. Ultimately though, I would like to build another deep and meaningful relationship, secondary to my primary one but I know that will happen organically and I am enjoying the process in the meantime. I enjoy discussing and learning about polyamory and the world of non-monogamy and love just meeting other open women and couples to meet up, befriend and just connect with about this new and wonderful way of life.

Spending incredible amounts of time with my family, this occupies most of my life.

I am a health care provider by trade, currently building an international video communication business; taking care of my body; spending quality time with my family and friends and taking vacations/road trips whenever I can get away!
Just enjoying every minute.
I’m really good at
Enjoying life,
Being open minded,
Helping others,
Learning and teaching,
Listening and conversation,
Making the most of every situation,
Giving massages,
Kissing and smiling :)
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile,
my eyes,
my friendliness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read, watch, listen and view a very diverse and eclectic array of books, videos, movies, music, and art. I love to discover new things in all of those categories. I also really enjoy traveling and going out to experience culture whether at a concert, theater, museum, etc.

When it comes to food, I love cuisine from all over the world, especially Asian. I enjoy a Vegan, or plant based diet, and I can usually find something awesome to eat pretty much anywhere I go, especially in this town and I really love eating out.
The six things I could never do without
My wife and children,
Nature,
Culture,
Health,
Sex/Love/Intimacy,
and fruit ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I'd want to travel to next. How to make the most out of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Any of the possibilities of what I enjoy that I listed above!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love giving more than getting.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Certainly, if you like what you see/read so far and would like to get to know me better and see if there is any type of connection between us. Also, though, message me just to say hello, ask any questions, break the ice and just reach out and connect with someone new. Love making friends on here as well.