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StephyLeFew

23 / F / bisexual / Available

Littleton, Colorado

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am silly, allegedly artistic, and classic.

My Self-Summary

I'm a fairly outgoing 23 year old chick. I'm addicted to Disney movies and cheesy reality dating shows on VH1 and MTV. I love all kinds of music from country to pop to rock and classical. I've been known to write a dirty story or two (or more *cough*). I love going to the Denver zoo on days when the weather is warm. Recently I've been really enjoying taking pictures. I'm a total people watcher.

I absolutely love short skirts, especially with a pair of cute boots. (I also love fishnet though I haven't worn it in forever.)I'm a total sucker for people who can make me laugh and who like to learn new things. I squeal like a little girl when I see cute and cuddly animals and I've been known to hoard stuffed animals, even at 23.

Oh yeah, and I'm married. But in an open relationship, at least as far as girls go. (And I promise that my husband doesn't get to meet the girls I go out with although he does hear if they're cute :P) I'm okay with married chicks or bisexual chicks (also okay with the lesbian chicks, or straight chicks who are curious, no hating here!) But if you're a married chick I have to be up front and say that I don't want to meet your husband, even as friends. I have no intention of my husband ever meeting any of my girls, whether they're friends or potential love interests. Nothing against anyone, but these two parts of my life are separate and they'll remain that way.

This is kind of related to the above paragraph. I don't mind talking to guys but I'm not on here looking to meet any of them or have any form of sexual contact with them. I'll be polite to you unless you start hitting on me, in which case I'll know you haven't read my profile and you're just going based on pictures or location and then I'll most likely be rude. (Sorry about the rant but I'm tired of guys talking to me about sex when they obviously haven't read the profile.)

What I’m doing with my life

Lately I've been staying up until five AM writing stories and then sleeping until noon or later.

Oh yeah, and I'm looking for a job like half of the country

I’m really good at

Writing (I hope so anyway)
Making people laugh
Being kid like

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my butt if you're behind me. When I was 17 I was leaning over to put milk in our fridge and my butt hit the door and a part of the door totally fell off. My mom says I shouldn't be proud of that moment but really, how many people can say that their butt broke a fridge?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Interview With a Vampire
Master/Slave
Almost anything by Jack Kerouac or Philippa Gregory

Movies: Lady and the Tramp (yes that's a Disney movie...I'm pretty sure it's the greatest love story of all time)
Dead Man on Campus
The Last Unicorn (I grew up on that movie)
Black and white movies like Some Like It Hot or Shall We Dance

Music: Pretty much anything. I own stuff from Enrique Iglesias to Jewel to Kid Rock to the Spice Girls (I was 12...don't hold it against me!)

Food: I'm the world's pickiest eater but I heart fast food. Occasionally I'll eat a banana or have some grapes but my heart is truly held by Wendy's.

The six things I could never do without

Music
My journal
My computer to write down stories (my hand can't write fast enough to keep up with my brain)
My kitties
My significant other
Cute skirts

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What story I'll write next or how weird giraffes would look if their necks were shorter. (Seriously, ponder that for a second, it'll freak you out or make you giggle)

I also spend a lot of time pondering the important things, for example, this week's ponderance is what color am I going to dye my Spring Equinox eggs?

On a typical Friday night I am

At home. Money is a bit tight right now but when I can I do like to go out dancing or to the zoo or even out to dinner. What can I say, I'm a pretty cheap date.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

You'll just have to message me to find out won't ya?

Okay that was totally trite. Next thing you know I'll be saying I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you.

But seriously, you should message me to find out. :P

You should message me if

You wanna know the answer to the above, you're willing to possibly be my first girl on girl kiss, you enjoy kid like, happy, easy going people. Also if you enjoy cute and cuddly animals, reading smut, dancing like no one's watching when the stereo is turned up and you're home alone (so I guess no one really is watching) and a bunch of other silly things because that probably means that we'll get along.