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StereoJim

56 / M / bisexual / Single

Grand Rapids, Michigan

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Would you ever consider a relationship where you would take on an exclusive sexual role as master or slave?
  • Yes, as the master only.
  • Yes, as the slave only.
  • Yes, as the master or the slave.
  • No.
Not so sure about forever being cast as one or the other.
But depending on moods and playmate requests,
have done both sides in role play.
Would you ever consider a relationship where you wouldtake on an exclusive sexual role as master or slave?
  • Yes, as the master only.
  • Yes, as the slave only.
  • Yes, as the master or the slave.
  • No.
Not so sure about forever being cast as one or the other.
But depending on moods and playmate requests,
have done both sides in role play.

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If you were with an inexperienced sexual partner who needed improvement in this field, would you criticize them during sex?
  • Yes. I'd be brutally honest.
  • Yes. I'd be sensitive, though.
  • No, and I'd never mention it to them.
  • No, but I would bring it up another time.
old joke:
How do you get to Carnege Hall?
PRACTICE!
(a policy of continual improvement)
If you were with an inexperienced sexual partner whoneeded improvement in this field, would you criticize themduring sex?
  • Yes. I'd be brutally honest.
  • Yes. I'd be sensitive, though.
  • No, and I'd never mention it tothem.
  • No, but I would bring it up anothertime.
old joke:
How do you get to Carnege Hall?
PRACTICE!
(a policy of continual improvement)

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How open are you to trying new things in bed?
  • Very open. I'll try anything once.
  • I'm open, but I don't get too crazy.
  • Hesitant, but it might happen.
  • Not at all.
I reserve the right to say no - but haven't felt a need to do so.
How open are you to trying new things in bed?
  • Very open. I'll try anything once.
  • I'm open, but I don't get too crazy.
  • Hesitant, but it might happen.
  • Not at all.
I reserve the right to say no - but haven't felt a need to do so.

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When a date is coming to your house do you strategically place things (for example: books, CDs, DVDs, gadgets, etc.) to project a certain image?
  • Yes.
  • No.
What you see is what you get.
The books, CDs & DVDs remain on their regular shelves.
The gadgets remain where they get used.
If you're really special, I might pick up the dirty laundry.
When a date is coming to your house do youstrategically place things (for example: books, CDs, DVDs, gadgets,etc.) to project a certain image?
  • Yes.
  • No.
What you see is what you get.
The books, CDs & DVDs remain on their regular shelves.
The gadgets remain where they get used.
If you're really special, I might pick up the dirty laundry.

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Do you believe that the global flood (Noah's ark) actually happened?
  • Yes.
  • No.
The people of New Orleans who got caught in hurricane Katrina probably felt that their whole world was flooded.
Do you believe that the global flood (Noah's ark)actually happened?
  • Yes.
  • No.
The people of New Orleans who got caught in hurricane Katrinaprobably felt that their whole world was flooded.

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Which would bother you more? Finding out that your significant other has been cheating on you with the same person for several months or discovering that they have had a slew of one-night stands during the course of your relationship.
  • Cheating multiple times with the same person.
  • Having multiple one-night stands.
  • They would both upset me equally.
  • Neither one would particularly bother me.
Mostly I'd be bothered by not being invited to join in.
Which would bother you more? Finding out that yoursignificant other has been cheating on you with the same person forseveral months or discovering that they have had a slew ofone-night stands during the course of your relationship.
  • Cheating multiple times with the sameperson.
  • Having multiple one-night stands.
  • They would both upset me equally.
  • Neither one would particularly botherme.
Mostly I'd be bothered by not being invited to join in.

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How often do you meditate?
  • Frequently.
  • Rarely.
  • Never.
I wouldn't call it meditation. But sometimes while I'm resting my eyes, I am thinking about stuff. Designed a room by closing my eyes and picturing how it would look when done. Mentally zoomed in to get a better look at construction details. Then built it just as imagined.
How often do you meditate?
  • Frequently.
  • Rarely.
  • Never.
I wouldn't call it meditation. But sometimes while I'm resting myeyes, I am thinking about stuff. Designed a room by closing my eyesand picturing how it would look when done. Mentally zoomed in toget a better look at construction details. Then built it just asimagined.

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Not to be racist but which ethnicity do you find to be most attractive?
  • White
  • Black
  • Latino
  • Asian/Indian
I find that an individual's attributes are more important than ancestry. Extreme example: 19 YO skinny Black is much more attactive to me than a 350 pound White. (but did both) Have also enjoyed Latino, no experience with Asian or Indian. Volunteers?
Not to be racist but which ethnicity do you find to bemost attractive?
  • White
  • Black
  • Latino
  • Asian/Indian
I find that an individual's attributes are more important thanancestry. Extreme example: 19 YO skinny Black is much moreattactive to me than a 350 pound White. (but did both) Have alsoenjoyed Latino, no experience with Asian or Indian. Volunteers?

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Are you looking for a partner to have children with?
  • Yes
  • No
I don't think that I would be a good parent, having never "grown up" myself. Just looking for playmates.
Are you looking for a partner to have children with?
  • Yes
  • No
I don't think that I would be a good parent, having never "grownup" myself. Just looking for playmates.

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Are you sexually attracted to any inanimate objects?
  • Yes.
  • No.
Attracted - no. But toys can be fun.
Are you sexually attracted to any inanimate objects?
  • Yes.
  • No.
Attracted - no. But toys can be fun.