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28 San Francisco, CA Man


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  • Ages 18-50
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My details

Last online
Nov 9
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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maps are so full of cool shit

SF livin
What I’m doing with my life
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right now: working at a job that helps make art a viable living, discovering all I can, reading history, making the internet work

so I used to have a long-term goal listed here: have a space in SOMA to host music parties for friends. well, I did it. check that one off. time to party
I’m really good at
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jumping into new places and exploring them really hard (even if it's just on googlemaps)

finding music parties

explaining technical things to people (I usually don't think I am good at this but people keep telling me I'm good at it so either I am good at it or people are just terrified of making me think I've failed. I sincerely hope that is not the case!)
The first things people usually notice about me
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one time my boss called my style "paramilitary raver"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like every map. old ones. digital ones. china and afghanistan share a border, did you know? I didn't until recently! also I love looking at all these recently-created states where their border ALMOST gets to touch the ocean but some other state blocks them from touching it by like 100 feet.

the forests of oregon look like a checkerboard due to the way land was granted to railroad companies in the 1800's

one time I found a giant portrait, hundreds of feet tall, of Colonel Sanders (kentucky fried chicken colonel sanders) painted onto the nevada desert floor

do you like hearing about shit like that occasionally? are you bringing some serious curiosity to the table too? silly curiosity counts too

I read roughly one nonfiction book about every two weeks. It turns out the more I consume, the hungrier I get. I'm anti-war yet highly interested in security, military history, the vast detailed histories of modern intelligence agencies, all kinds of history. More stuff gets declassified all the time.

I'm into bass-centric future music and I'm lucky enough to live in a city that supports it through hella parties
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- the scale section of maps (finally finally added to mobile googlemaps, it only took 7 years)
- brand new music all the time
- brand new (to me!) information all the time
- art
- stimulation
- the merry bands of great people who surround me and challenge me and keep me reasonable and involve me in epic undertakings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
breaking systems
snare drums
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
learning (but also every other night)
probably at some music party. come along?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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past life pro gamer
You should message me if
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you're absurd

you want to discuss cool shit

also I'm dating some people right now so I can do dates (I love going on dates, there are so many fun things to do in SF together) but no time for anything tooo serious right now