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25 Philadelphia, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:07pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Hate me, or love me; never live in apathy... for indifference is the death of existence, and sincerity is the seed of forgiveness."

Huh… It is so hard to describe yourself without seeming pompous or unenthused, and boring, but I’ll do my best to find this balance. I have done many things in my life and am currently trying to see what to do next. When jumping between being an owner of a non-profit, a graphic designer for an art’s studio, and even having my hand in inventing, photography, acting, and music, you learn that you really want to find somewhere to call home…
I’m sweet, funny, caring, playful, creative, thought provoking, intuitive, understanding and I hold nothing back for those I feel would give me the same in turn.
For now I just want to meet some great people and see if anything blooms, but I guess that I will attempt to explain what I’m ultimately looking for down the line [though there are no stone tablets with etchings of what are desired/potentially fulfilling experiences, and bonds], and if it rings to you in anyway contact me, and let's see how things grow from there…

I hope to find a best friend, a muse, a cuddle buddy, someone who betters me as a person, and inspires me as an artist… This girl enjoys the little things I do to make her smile like the good morning and night emoticon texts, and the random, just thinking about you gifts, songs, and poetry… She has to enjoy or at least tolerate my quirks and strange humor… I just want someone who I can rely on to care about my happiness, so I’m free to care about her’s.

Think you may be this girl? Let’s hangout and see…

If you are wondering in terms of personality types...
Yeah. I'm ENFP so that explains allot
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hmm.. I'm always trying to put a band together. In college I wrote songs and sang for small duo called "it might b apples", but since then I have been working tirelessly on my craft and wanna give the music scene another go. My goal is to play out live around Philadelphia, record originals with my band, ultimately rule the world, but for now I'm setting up a home studio in my apartment and recording with friends. I'm an artist recreationally, but an entrepreneur professionally. Building up the non-profit, saving the world, coming up with innovative adaptive tech, and eating chicken. All in a days work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Back/feet rubs, knowing when someone is lying, then ignoring it, because they are lying for a reason, singing someone to sleep, making someone who is crying laugh, being there when you need me most, breaking people's defenses, and drag racing the septa buses.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hat, gloves, phone, shoes, necklace and chair all match... Neon Green is a way of life...

I'm often told I have really nice hands... softest too... I think my hands look weird, but many tell me I should be a hand model.. lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Some good shows are: Scrubs, Burn Notice, How I Met Your Mother, Adventure Time, Game of Thrones, Firefly, Dr. Who, Yu Yu Hakusho, Smallville, Supernatural, Dragonball, a bunch of random anime, South Park, Legend of the Seeker, Parks and Rec, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Home Movies, Bob's Burgers, and Burn Notice. IDK...

Some movies I like are: Boondock Saints, Donnie Darko, Avengers, John Dies in the End, a bunch of Monty Python/National Lampoon type comedies. The Brave Little Toaster was a fave when I was a kid.

Some bands I enjoy and am influenced by are: City and Colour, Death Cab for Cutie, Radiohead, George Watsky, Elliott Smith, Queen, Electric Wizard, The Animals, Nirvana, Snow Patrol, Tool, The Strokes, Mumford and Sons, and the Beatles obviously.
Lately I've been obsessed with beatbox battles... I so badly wish to see Tom Thum, or Dave Crowe, and his band Heymoonshaker live....

Hmm.... fried chicken, grilled chicken, baked chicken, microwaved chicken. Ummm, and bacon on tuesdays.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer, music, the color green, chicken, art, and head scratches...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life, methods of conquering the world, what to watch on netflix, and that melody I just wrote but can't get out of my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to make connections at open mics and concerts to build a band. Meeting new people. Just sitting in bed watching too many dumb youtube videos, doing some cover art exercises or writing a new song.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m physically disabled - I have Spinal Muscular Atrophy type II… This genetic neuromuscular disorder makes it so my muscles cannot build up effectively after they break down. [I'll never be a WWE wrestler... There goes my life dream... damn]

Really nothing is too private, so go ahead ask anything!
You should message me if
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you are into anything I mentioned, and want to share a story about it.
you think I'm cute, and want to convince me to go on a date.
you like some of my art and want to let me know, or want to ask me to make something featuring you.
you want to nerd chat about videogames, anime, and the like.
you want to meet up for "jog" when it get's nice out: I don't ever tire, keep a steady 7.5 mph, and if your legs cramp, I'll give you a ride. Can you think of a better running companion? hahaha
you are tired of the same old and interested in a new experience in life.

Go ahead... Ask me anything... I dare you... :p