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29 Fair Oaks, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:25am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have not had a lot of positive relationships with members of the opposite sex. My last ex fell in love with a coworker and decided to excommunicate me for 4 months before telling me. The one before that was married and didn't tell me.

In grade school, I received a note from my crush telling me the feeling was mutual and she wanted to know if I still felt strongly for her with my fifth grade emotional level. I used my strong pensmanship game to express to her just how much I cared about her. Well, the two troubled friends of hers not only intercepted my letter but had wrote her original letter to humiliate me. I've never told anyone this story but it feels right sharing it right now.

Don't be a shitty person and we should get along just fine :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Landing a state job. Making people smile or laugh or think. Helping out when and where I can. Trying to take it all in stride. Understanding and practicing what it means to be graceful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
At a lot of things. Reading people. Explaining things. Listening. I'm patient with a lot of things. Maybe too patient/passive. Being a middle child, I'm a natural born negotiator/diplomat. It's not that I enjoy compromise, I enjoy including everyone that wants to be. No one should be left out if they don't wanna be. Except child molesters right? Fuck those people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My tastes are too varied to be listed and catalogued. If I feel it, I'll ride it out. From the fountain (the movie) to brotha lynch (the "artist"?). Please don't listen to brotha lynch. Although the one guy I knew who liked that noise just got married so I dunno maybe I'm the weirdo for not vibing with sacramento's premiere rapping cannibal. Maybe. Only maybe.

Writers block has kind of sapped my will to read but I enjoy(ed) Stephen King, the dark tower series, House of Leaves, I am Legend, Cormac McCarthy, the guy who wrote Justified and 3:10 to Yuma (can't remember his name but he just passed away a couple years ago :,(
) Elmore Leonard, I had to look it up. Stuff like that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love. Life. Compassion. Humor. Hope. Faith.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I can do to better myself and my situation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
That moment when you realize just how boring and monotonous your life has become. I need to add some je ne sais quoi into my life...

All in due time :) for now contented to keep to my hobbies and save money until a time which I can splurge and start going out again. Hopefully this depressing monologue is only a temporary reminder of how far I have to go yet. If my lackadaisical approach towards sharing my weekly plans puts you off, just glad we didn't get anyone's hopes up unnecessarily ;)

No I won't chop down and then build you a log cabin. I don't have a rich plush full beard. My library doesn't smell of Mahoganay, but I do enjoy scotch.
You should message me if
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You think we have something in common.

You don't mind that I'm nerdy/dorky.

You know what R/trees is.

You're kind, polite, empathetic, and don't get all offended when I try to hold the door open for you. Even more, you actually acknowledge my existence and effort with a simple "Thank you!" Or even just eye contact and a nod. And I hold the door open for everyone. Dudes too. Especially dudes so that way all these girls don't think they're so special. Sorry ladies but it's time to take you down a peg. And people said chivalry was dead... :P