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30 Fair Oaks, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:55pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty easy to get along with. I'm the middle child so I'm just naturally/inherently the peacekeeper. I love to laugh and make others laugh. But I'm kind of a sensitive b*^%# at times. I won't attribute it to being Pisces because that might turn some off but I will openly say I probably give more of a f*%# than most people you meet. Sorry for caring.

And sharing is caring so. Feel free to share something about yourself. Favorite color. Last thing you read. Something funny or weird that happened to you. What your last/most memorable date from OKC/online was like. Etc etc.

Damn. OKC putting me on blast. Downwards confidence huh. Well at least I'm thrifty and independent /sarcasm
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Waking up at 4 and going to bed at 8:30. Showered and clothed by 5. At work by 6. Home by 2. Mon thru fri. Then on the weekends I go crazy and sleep in til like 8, and sometimes, when I'm feeling really wild, I'll stay up past midnight!!!

Yeah it's a boring life but it pays the bills and it's not really that boring.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm not so sure so let's say self doubt. I'm really good at taking my thoughts and feelings and putting them into words. I'm good at feeling that thought you're thinking without you having to say it out loud, but it's nice to hear you say it anyways.

Edit: I called it on the self doubt. When OKC calls you out for having low confidence, you're f*cked. 10/10 would be rated by an algorithm again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

Books: I'm an aspiring writer. I hope to one day share my experiences in a whimsical and entertaining manner. But until I do, I find everyone else's book an affront to my lack of drive or ability to actually follow through with writing something and then publishing it. I've written. I've completed a 50,000+ page book. I've worked with USA Today to strengthen my editing game, but for the life of me, I cannot enjoy reading like I used to because I cannot force myself to write. It's a vicious cycle I need to get out of somehow.

Movies: all the same shit everyone else likes. Movies are like memories and the moment recent ones tend to stand out but that doesn't change the value or experience of older ones. I'm just as much a fan of the new Nolan batman as I am the Burton batman, for example. Movies that stand out in my mind: 3:10 to Yuma, Inception, Memento, The Fountain, Indiana Jones series, except the last one, the Star Wars, the newer Star Trek's, Aliens, and I've never seen the Notebook so. Yeahhhhh. Oh that reminds me, office space!!

TV: more obvious ones: game of thrones, walking dead, I also like house of cards and daredevil on Netflix. Arrested development. The daily show. Colbert is awesome. Not really into singing shows or reality tv so much these days but I used to watch survivor and mtv crap like catfish or jersey shore :/ I've outgrown that phase though ;)

Music: love everything that jives with me. Not typically a country fan, however, even though I hate to throw blanket accusations over any entire population instead of taking it one individual at a time. But I will mess with Texas and I do prefer my music to be varied. I guess that's one of my beefs with country music; folks who like country music tend to only like country music, and everything else is crap (or just rap) to them. I need more tolerance and acceptance in my life. But yeah, I like Muse, the Offspring, childish gambino, lily Allen, daft punk in small doses, Morgan page, David guetta, green day, you get the picture... That last one isn't a band, just saying ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Shit I dunno. Cursing? The interwebs, where would I meet my beautiful wife(sarcasm)? So that's two..

Physics. Breathing. Spell check/auto correct although who says duck/ducking all that much.. And one more. I'll be serious with this last one...

Love. Because without it, none of us are here, and without it, not much to live for. Although bacon is a close second.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the duck I am doing at a max 4 security prison assisting nurses and doctors when I have a degree in economics. And how good it feels to not be in that place the moment I'm away, and how I dread waking up but once I'm there, it doesn't seem all that bad. How quickly 10 to 2 comes but how slowly 6:45 to 7:30 goes. What I'm doing with my life and if it's my poor taste in women or their taste in me that's giving me so many restless thoughts. And why male models?

Why do I see the activity of folks from San Francisco? That's cool. And your social lives are vastly superior to ours here in the city of trees but I don't need OKC to remind me of that. We get it San Francisco. You're cool. And we're just a bundle of sticks over here. But you know what we don't have here? A 2 hours commute to move 6 blocks. Boom. That's right shots fired. 💥🔫

Recent thoughts: I must be a really boring individual. But at least my dogs excited to see me when I get home, so I got that going for me. Is the half your age plus 7 really the unspoken standard for age ranges? Why don't white chicks dig me at all (no disrespect to anyone else, it's just weird that white women tend to have no interest in me, generally speaking)? Why is ignoring a polite message preferred to saying hi thanks not interested? Is that too much effort? (I do this too occasionally). It's gorgeous out. I'm gonna get off now.

Finally: does anyone else notice how there are a lot more transsexuals on OKC? Good for them for looking for love. I'm like who's this loud looking... Oh. It's a dude. Or a chick who used to be a dude. Some of them... Look pretty convincing. That's cool. Glad they're comfortable enough to put themselves out there. Not sure that I'd be comfortable physically around someone like that but I enjoy living in a country during a time where we can discuss topics like these. I don't know where I'm going with this.

7/21/15: ok one more. I notice a lot of ladies saying message me if: "you can grow a good beard." Ok. Lets dissect this request. You realize when we grow facial hair, it's because the hair has left somewhere else on our body. For most men it's the top of the head. So if they've got super rich plush beards by the time they're in their late 20s, they're gonna be wearing a lot of hats into their 30s. So you should really say, message me if you like wearing hats because it's less offensive to us full haired, non-balding men who didn't choose to be bald faced anymore than you choose to have large/non-existent chesticles. :)

11/23/15: maybe this is too personal for the Internet. But a loved one confided in me another loved one has done anal before and I just don't know what to think anymore. I just...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to live in the moment and take advantage of whatever opportunities might come my way. Maybe it's going out and having fun with friends, maybe it's staying in and having fun being an introvert. There's nothing typical about the atypical life. Except online dating; what's more typical than searching for a connection with someone else?
You should message me if
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You probably won't. Not because I'm a glass half empty type but because more than half the messages I send out never get replied to. Of all the girls I've met and talked to and discussed their experiences with, apparently (most of) you all get sooooooo many messages it's just impossible for you to respond to something simple like hey or what's up or how's your week been, so we gotta go with something more traditional and original to get past that first layer of defense. Maybe I'll comment on something quirky on your photos, but never anything obvious like a tattoo or pretty hair or eyes because God knows that's cliche enough right? So I put some time and thought process into formulating something that shows interest and maybe hints at a shared hobby or activity we could talk about. Could be cinema, books, basketball, comics, video games, your dog that is almost as cool as my dog but not as cool, whatever. And then we can see where it goes from there if you reply at all which history tells me you're more likely to ignore me and think my feeble attempt at saying hi is more pathetic and creepy than cute and endearing.

So yeah if any of that sounds good. I like dark hair and dark eyes. If that helps. If you have a sense of humor, huge bonus. If my profile comes off to you as sad or negative or pathetic, clearly you didn't read it as the satire that i have presented it as. The only thing I'm missing is the shirtless mirror selfie and I don't have one of those because I'm so white, a shirtless photo of me could blind someone and I don't want to be responsible or liable for that. Thanks for stopping by and best of luck out there!!!