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My self-summary
Grateful. Optimistic. Flirtatious. Snuggly. Scruffy. Honest.

I'm energetic, a bit of a risk-taker, but not foolish. (I've skydived but would never bungee jump.) Keep me guessing, be flirty - be sincere and I'll respond in-kind.

I started my own consulting business this year, "helping non-profits realize their full fundraising potential." I work long and hard but also do it remotely as often as I can.

Looking for adventurers and explorers to help me tackle my travel bucket list. Soft spot for fellas who are willing/able to look me in the eyes during heartfelt conversatio and passionate sex.

I like to think I'm .. Articulate. Introspective. Ambitious. Tough. A good kisser. Kind-hearted. Athletic. Passionate. Spontaneous. Intuitive. Trying my best to do the next right thing.

My ideal guy is 40+, likely 50+. I appreciate enthusiastic go get'em guys whose vocabs also include please, thank you and polysyllabic words.

I'm open to enjoying anything that comes my way and feels healthy or just feels right.

Nothing catches my attention quicker then random acts of kindness, generosity and integrity.
What I’m doing with my life
Made my way to NY in late 2010 for a truly amazing job. Did what I came to do and started my own consulting business in 2015. Now that I've got the flexibility to do my thing pretty much anywhere, I'm beginning to wonder if there's not a quieter sleepier place I aught to plant myself on the East Coast.
I’m really good at
Being attentive, making scrambled eggs, folding t-shirts to exact same size every time, listening, running, buying Christmas presents.

Traveling: Thailand, Greece, Costa Rica, Peru, Germany, France, Mexico, Cambodia, England, Netherlands, Saint Barths, Japan, St. Marteen, Spain, Puerto Rico, Australia, Bahamas, and on and on and on - all but a handful of US states. Always thinking about my next trip - Morocco? Turkey? Hawaii? Alaska? Hong Konk? South Africa?
The first things people usually notice about me
Coming: My eyes.
Going: My butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The new (2015) Mad Max (intense!), Pitch Perfect, The Color Purple, Scandal, American History X, 9 to 5, Sordid Lives, Inside Amy Schumer, Big Business, Usual Suspects, Into Thin Air, Where The Sidewalk Ends, Dry, Me Talk Pretty One Day (anything David Sedaris actually), Dexter, Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, The Golden Girls, Nurse Jackie, United States of Tara, Jagged Little Pill, Little Earthquakes, 21, DJ DrewG, Reba, Brooks & Dunn, the Dixie Chicks. (oh, and gingers/redheads <3 thump thump)
The six things I could never do without
iced coffee
clean white sheets
a planned trip to somewhere I've never been
flip flops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
behaviors - mine, yours, his, hers, theirs
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually quiet, catching up on alone time, watching a movie in my oh so very comfy bed.
You should message me if
you'd like to
i dont bite hard