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26 M Matawan, NJ

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm not my name...
I'm not my experiences...
I'm not any label...
I am.

Expected version:
I'm a fun-loving person. I love to try new things and expand my horizons. I'm random and spontaneous. I laugh as much as humanly possible. I have a nickname for almost every person I know. I think differently. I'm really open-minded (I'll entertain literally any idea). I'm fascinated by dreams and dreaming. I'm a firm believer that life experiences are much more valuable than material goods. I follow my intuition. I make the most out of life.

What I do in my free time and some interests:
Walking and exploring new places, attending all kinds of events (experiences > material things), working out, reading, writing (poetry, music, I keep a journal, I log and interpret my dreams), sports, hiking, traveling, philosophizing, and just about anything else that I can find. I love acquiring and honing new skills.

Walking outside is so underrated.

Climbing trees never gets old.

I'm a huge advocate of traveling. I lived in New Zealand for a few months in 2011 and got to see the entire country. That was such an amazing experience.

Check out my website/blog for way more than I can express here:
What I’m doing with my life
Loving this human experience.

"Experience life in all possible ways -- good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Experience all the dualities. Don't be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more mature you become." - Osho

Working for an awesome software company in NYC, but traveling a lot for work recently, which is always fun.

I'm also blogging/running a website on the side.
I’m really good at
-Being a random idea generator
-Empowering people
-Making people feel good
-Being insightful
-Remembering names
-Most sports (though golf is not my friend)
-Instigating laugh-fests
-Living outside of the box
-Making up nicknames
-Not complaining
-Small random acts of kindness
-Being easygoing
-Coming up with Halloween costumes
-Using quotes in everyday conversation
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite authors/books:
Tim Ferriss
Deepak Chopra
David Icke
Carlos Castaneda
A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
1984 by George Orwell
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley (I actually prefer it to 1984)
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife by Eben Alexander
Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield

Favorite quote right now:
"Absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. Add what is uniquely your own." -Bruce Lee

Favorite word = Fruition

Movies: Here's some of them
Space Jam
Rush Hour
Shawshank Redemption
The Matrix
Cloud Atlas
He Got Game (Ray Allen is my boy)
Star Wars
Home Alone 1 & 2 (probably the movies I quote the most)

Music: Everything, but I tend to gravitate towards hip-hop. I love 90's music too, and some classical or jazz as background music sometimes. Some of my favorites right now: Outkast, Jay Electronica, Frank Ocean, Cocaine 80's, Pink Floyd and John Lennon.

Fun fact. Before I go out I always blast "Return of the Mack" by Mark Morrison.

Shows: I don't really watch TV these days. But two shows I've always loved are Chappelle Show and South Park, because they're based on hilarious and brilliant observations of the world we live in.

Food: I love all food, and I consciously enjoy every bite. I mostly eat real food (unprocessed), but I'm not afraid to indulge every once in a while. My favorite food is probably sushi.
The six things I could never do without
(Besides the necessities for survival)
Some form of freedom
Deep connections with other people
Knowledge/access to information
Evernote (Does anyone else use it as much as I do?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's going on around us that we can't perceive with our 5 senses.
Maximizing potential.
How to make every situation fun.
Family and friends.
Spiritual growth.
Food (What I'm going to have for dinner).
Creating freedom of time and location for myself.
WWSD? (What Would Spongebob Do?)
Dreams and dreaming.
Humanity's true origins/history.
The nature of reality. (Do we live in a hologram? Haha)
Improving myself.
Leaving a legacy.
How Bigfoot is so damn elusive.
Checking off my bucket list.
How to not think so much.

^umm... Yeah that's a long list.
On a typical Friday night I am
"Typical" is not in my vocabulary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I carry a Pokemon card (Dragonite, to be exact) in my wallet at all times. Yes, I'm serious about that. I got into a bar once using it as my ID. The bouncer loved it.

Also, I'm a hopeless romantic. Well, more like a hopeful romantic. I know you're out there :)
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 20–28
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to share experiences and grow together.