Hi there! Before we begin let's get a few things out of the way:
First, I am NOT a traditionalist by any means. I'm not here to get married and have children. If you're here for those things please skip my profile. For better or worse I am who I am. I enjoy my independence and you should too. If any of the following offends you, then I'm sorry you can't take this profile in the good humored nature it was intended. I wish you well on your OK Cupid adventures
Second, I'm a good guy. I'm respectful, ethical, and fair. I have only one rule and it's the golden rule. Yes, I am here for sex (yep, I said it) with a side of friendship . This does not mean that I don't want a meaningful relationship it just means I'm here for a FWB situation with a strong emphasis on the word "friend". We can determine if it should be monogamous or not if we are compatible.
I've done the standard relationship and I want something different now. I am focusing on my film making and that is just going to come first right now. It's as simple as that.That doesn't mean I'm here to use somebody for sex. I believe it should always be a two way street, any exploitation should be mutual, and I will always try to give a little more than I get. Pleasing other people in this area pleases me. It can be one night or many. A short fling or a long affair. The longevity or depth of the relationship is open to discussion.
Third, You can be single, in a relationship. I require that you are honest about your outside relationships with your significant other. I won't hold it against you if you're not, but I don't see any longevity in that scenario.
Fourth, I'm 5'10 and I fluctuate between 210-225 lbs. So you should be in that range. Meaning if you're taller than that, then it's fine if you weigh a little more. If you're shorter than that, you should probably weigh a little less. Fairly simple. I'm not picky. I don't have a type. I'm just not interested in women on far ends of the spectrum. If you're 6 feet tall and weigh 110 I'm not gonna find you attractive. If you're 5 feet tall and weigh 280 I'm not gonna find you attractive either.
Fifth, I don't log in here everyday. Sometimes it's days (even weeks) before I check in here. I have enough stuff to check on my phone/computer on a daily basis. If I have to validate how awesome you are, the simple truth is YOU'RE NOT! Not chatting with you on OKC everyday is not is not an indicator of disinterest it's an indicator of your level of insecurity... which in turn makes you uninteresting. Get a grip. Grow up ladies. I'm too old to placate someones ego. We're all adults here.
...also, if you have a picture of yourself standing above a forest on a rock in the mountains somewhere don't bother messaging me (only sort of kidding). I'm not against outdoor adventures and what not, but you should be a tad more original on here.
Okay... Now that that's out of the way. Please continue if you're still interested.
I am sarcastic, curious, and forthright. That can be a problem for some. I'm guessing that's not a problem for because you're still reading... At the very least you're some what curious.