Hi there! Before we begin let's get a few things out of the way:
First, I am NOT a traditionalist by any means. I'm not here to get married and have children. If you're here for those things please skip my profile. For better or worse I am who I am. I enjoy my independence and you should too. If any of the following offends you, then I'm sorry you can't take this profile in the good humored nature it was intended. I wish you well on your OK Cupid adventures
Second, I'm a good guy. I'm respectful, ethical, and fair. I have only one rule and it's the golden rule. So when I say that I'm not here for a relationship. It means at most I'm here for a FWB situation. I'm here for sex (yep, I said it) with a side of friendship .
I've done the standard relationship and I want something different now. It's as simple as that...and I tend to be busy. That doesn't mean I'm here to use somebody for sex. I believe it should always be a two way street, any exploitation should be mutual, and I will always try to give a little more than I get. Pleasing other people in this area pleases me. It can be one night or many. A short fling or a long affair. The longevity or depth of the relationship is open to discussion.
Third, You can be single, in a relationship. I require that you are honest about your outside relationships with your significant other. I won't hold it against you if you're not, but I don't see any longevity in that scenario. If you're a couple looking for a third, it's negotiable, but I'm as hetero as they get. A zero on the Kinsey scale unfortunately.
Fourth, I'm 5'10 and I fluctuate between 210-225 lbs. So you should be in that range. Meaning if you're taller than that, then it's fine if you weigh a little more. If you're shorter than that, you should probably weigh a little less. Fairly simple. I'm not picky. I don't have a type. I'm just not interested in women on far ends of the spectrum. If you're 6 feet tall and weigh 110 I'm not gonna find you attractive. If you're 5 feet tall and weigh 280 I'm not gonna find you attractive either.
...also, if you have a picture of yourself standing above a forest on a rock in the mountains somewhere don't bother messaging me (only sort of kidding). I'm not against outdoor adventures and what not, but you should be a tad more original on here.
Okay... Now that that's out of the way. Please continue if you're still interested.
I am sarcastic, curious, and forthright. That can be a problem for some. I'm guessing that's not a problem for because you're still reading... At the very least you're some what curious.