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Stibbs

40 Seattle, WA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–51
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:27am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***PLEASE READ***

Hi there! Before we begin let's get a few things out of the way:

First, I am NOT a traditionalist by any means. I'm not here to get married and have children. If you're here for those things please skip my profile. For better or worse I am who I am. I enjoy my independence and you should too. If any of the following offends you, then I'm sorry you can't take this profile in the good humored nature it was intended. I wish you well on your OK Cupid adventures

Second, I'm a good guy. I'm respectful, ethical, and fair. I have only one rule and it's the golden rule. Yes, I am here for sex (yep, I said it) with a side of friendship . This does not mean that I don't want a meaningful relationship it just means I'm here for a FWB situation with a strong emphasis on the word "friend". We can determine if it should be monogamous or not if we are compatible.

I've done the standard relationship and I want something different now. I am focusing on my film making and that is just going to come first right now. It's as simple as that.That doesn't mean I'm here to use somebody for sex. I believe it should always be a two way street, any exploitation should be mutual, and I will always try to give a little more than I get. Pleasing other people in this area pleases me. It can be one night or many. A short fling or a long affair. The longevity or depth of the relationship is open to discussion.

Third, You can be single, in a relationship. I require that you are honest about your outside relationships with your significant other. I won't hold it against you if you're not, but I don't see any longevity in that scenario.

Fourth, I'm 5'10 and I fluctuate between 210-225 lbs. So you should be in that range. Meaning if you're taller than that, then it's fine if you weigh a little more. If you're shorter than that, you should probably weigh a little less. Fairly simple. I'm not picky. I don't have a type. I'm just not interested in women on far ends of the spectrum. If you're 6 feet tall and weigh 110 I'm not gonna find you attractive. If you're 5 feet tall and weigh 280 I'm not gonna find you attractive either.

Fifth, I don't log in here everyday. Sometimes it's days (even weeks) before I check in here. I have enough stuff to check on my phone/computer on a daily basis. If I have to validate how awesome you are, the simple truth is YOU'RE NOT! Not chatting with you on OKC everyday is not is not an indicator of disinterest it's an indicator of your level of insecurity... which in turn makes you uninteresting. Get a grip. Grow up ladies. I'm too old to placate someones ego. We're all adults here.

...also, if you have a picture of yourself standing above a forest on a rock in the mountains somewhere don't bother messaging me (only sort of kidding). I'm not against outdoor adventures and what not, but you should be a tad more original on here.

Okay... Now that that's out of the way. Please continue if you're still interested.

I am sarcastic, curious, and forthright. That can be a problem for some. I'm guessing that's not a problem for because you're still reading... At the very least you're some what curious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it.

Oh...that's not enough?

'Sigh...' Okay, I'm a filmmaker, and no it doesn't make me rich. However, the skill set that goes with the craft does make me enough money to pay the bills. Either way I don't plan on NOT making films anytime soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Since you've read this far what I'm good at is the ONE thing that's relevant in regards to you and I.

I believe actions speak louder than words. Try me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sarcasm, then maybe my eyes. My ruggedly handsome exterior?

Honestly, I don't know. I don't have enough out of body experiences to tell you what people may or may not notice about me. (Actually, I've had no out of body experiences).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'd love to sit here and list off all these things, but those lists would be immense and I would have to be constantly revising them on here. I have bordeline geeky tastes in things, but not exclusively. I love good sci-fi/fantasy entertainment.

Lets just say I am constantly hungry for things that feed the mind. The one thing I can't do much of these days is go to live music shows. My hearing is pretty bad, not deaf, but bad enough that I can't do that anymore due to all the errant crowd noise that goes along with those things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Movies
Women
Music
Beer
Food
Intelligent conversations about the above items.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(See above)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to avoid letting my days become too typical, but lately I've been taking it easy. I drink a lot less these days which makes coffee and sex my only big vices currently.

What are you doing this friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use dating websites to get dates on occasion. Don't hold that against me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you want to grab a drink sometime and see where that takes us.