That said The following are a list of “truths” that I feel apply to relationships and that I plan to accept and follow in a relationship.
Axiom 1-Do to others as you would have them do to you. Luke 6:31
Axiom 2-“Love is a rose but you better not pick it. It only grows when it’s on the vine.
A handful of thorns and you’ll know you’ve missed it you lose your love when you say the word “mine”.” Neil Young
Axiom 3-“Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.” Helen Keller
Axiom 4-“Most bad behavior comes from insecurity.” Debra Winger
Axiom 5-“We’re all imperfect and we all have needs. The weak usually do not ask for help so they stay weak. If we recognize that we are imperfect, we will ask for help and we will pray for the guidance necessary to bring positive results to whatever we are doing.” John Wooden
Axiom 6-Trust your stuff.
Axiom 7-“When someone breaks your trust don’t feel stupid for trusting them. You didn’t do anything wrong they’re just an untrustworthy person.”
Axiom 8-“In a relationship, if one person is allowed to control everything, there is no way love can grow.”
Axiom 9-“People are controllers to compensate for a feeling of inadequacy.”
Axiom 10-“Respect in Relationships: 10 Rules to Sustain Love-show appreciation; speak with respect; keep your appointments when possible; let them know in advance when you can’t make it; keep them a priority; share your most intimate feelings with your most intimate partner; don’t allow others to gossip about them; speak kindly about this person in front of others; open ears to them when they really need your support; and have their best interest at heart.”
Axiom 11-“All relationship problems stem from poor communication.” Elaine Fantle Shimberg
Axiom 12-“Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them.” Johannes Brahms
Axiom 13-“The unity of opposites…states that a thing is determined by its internal oppositions.” VJ Mcgill and WT Parry
Axiom 14-“The humble man makes room for progress; the proud man believes he is already there.” Ed Parker