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29 M Maryland Heights, MO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My interests pretty much fall under these categories: Outdoors, nerdy, travel, and learning.

Outdoors: Hiking, parks, festivals, camping, fishing, free concerts, etc

Nerdy: Scifi, fantasy, anime, board games, some video games, games in general, cosplay, conventions, swing dance, occasional other dancing.

Travel: I love going to new places. Been to 49 states and 11 countries. I plan to eventually visit a country for every year I am old.

Learning: History, educational shows, museums, historical sites, anything else that lets me learn or try something new.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in IT doing systems engineering. I recently ended a 2+ year long contract with a company and am beginning a position with another company. Along with the job change, I also changed apartments and am still working on settling into the new place. Also enjoying myself and seeking out new experiences. Finally I am working on loosing weight and have lost 30 lbs in the last year, 10 of that in the last month.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good at strategy games, problem solving, planning ahead, and coming up with contingency plans.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height I guess. Also supposedly I have an accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most anything that is scifi, fantasy, comedy, action, or otherwise entertaining.

Shows: Babylon 5, Star Treks, Jeremiah, Star Gates, Farscape, Venture Brothers, metalocalypse, phineas and ferb, Falling Skies, Burn Notice, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Defiance, and so so many more plus lots of anime too.

Books: I loved Frank Herbert's Dune series, plus some of his other books. Walter H Hunt's "Dark" series was pretty good. Terry Pratchett's DiscWolrd series I am reading off and on. I also loved his Good Omens book, which is how I got into his other books. Just read World War Z. Various other books that catch my attention, usually sci-fi, but also fantasy, some manga, history, and other things that eye.

Music: I am fine with most anything. I do particularly enjoy blues, jazz, swing, oldies, soft rock, and Weird Al Yankovic.

Food: Ribs, bacon, french toast, pasta, chicken, pot roast, potatoes, peas, rice, cinnamon rolls, and dinner rolls all come to mind. I will try most anything once. However I tend to not like spicy foods as much and generally do not like fish, but other sea food is ok. I did recently find that tilapia is quite delicious, so maybe there is hope of finding other fish I would like to eat. I am also odd, I don't eat sandwiches or hamburgers on a bun, but am fine eating the components separately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My towel
2) The spice Melange
3) My Minbari Fighting Pike (AKA a Denn'Bok)
4) My loyal luggage companion
5) My sonic screwdriver
6) My lightsaber

Kudos if you know all the references. When I actually think about the question, I fully understand I can do without a lot of thing in my life. It may make things more difficult, but I know I can go without. So I figured I would have some fun with it instead. :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering if we will find extraterrestrial life in our solar system in my life time. What an actual advanced (although not necessarily intelligent) life form my look like that originated from another world. In other words, not earthly looking aliens. Moving into my apartment and the worked needed to make that flow smoothly. What cool new things, festivals, and other shiny things are going on in the area to go visit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually on Friday nights I don't do much other than stay at home. Its Saturday and Sunday I am more likely to go out. But I could be dancing, hanging out with friends, playing games, sleeping, doing chores, or traveling to a weekend event of fun. Or simply watching movies or passing time on my computer or reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing I care to share for all the world to see that I have not already shared. I especially should not be sharing that I am secretly part of a scouting mission for a future alien invasion that plans to enslave all you human scum. :P

Might as well add this here. My faith and spiritual outlook is very complex, especially since I temper it with science. As such while I am Christian, I also have a strong Agnostic leaning. In otherwords, I get along best with people who are not super religious or super anti religious, but rather somewhere in between. As far as to which faith you follow, I don't care beyond an expectation that if different we have a mutual respect for each others religions and invite each other to share in our traditions.
You should message me if
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The kind of woman I would be looking for would need to be able to hold intelligent conversations, but also be able to just have good old silly fun. Also someone that has enough similar interests to have something in common, but I also find a few differences are good to add variety of experiences and offers new things to do and try. I want someone who can share a lot of my outdoor interests, but still able to enjoy some of my nerdier indoor interests.

If you are big on cuddling.

One more thing, I do not text. So you would need to be willing to use your phone to talk with.