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54 Hayward, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 28
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am honest, playful, down to earth, caring, loving, giving, intellegent, open minded, funny, and very intuitive woman...

I have strived to become the best woman I can be and am very proud of who I have become. I have evolved over the years and have made life changing decisions for the better. I continue to grow and am amazed at some of the changes that I have gone through.

I love doing all sorts of different activities bike riding, hiking, walking, swimming, visiting new places as well as going back to favorite places. I have traveled to different areas in the U.S. I recently got my passport and went to cental Mexico for the first time.

I love learning about new cultures, their traditions, beiefs and customs.

Relationships to me are to be cherished and treasurd. Open communication, honesty, respect and trust ar the fundamental factors to a healthy relationship between people.

I dislike secrets and do not want to be involved with people who keep them.
I want to meet someone who can be open and is willing to share himself, his drams and fears with me. As I plan to do likewise.

Bsically, I believe in the "Golden Rule", treat others as you would want to be treated...

I can think outside the box and hope to meet others who can do likewise.
I lean more towards spirituality rather than religion... If you get to know me you may learn why... However, I respect other peoples religious choices and am will to discuss them openly.

If you have kids, I don't have a problem with that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My divorce is almost final thank goodness. I moved into a new place last october and am starting a new live...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very creative and look outside the box for solutions. I am a great listener, compassionate and empathetic towards those around me. I'm an excellent cook and love to bake during the holidays.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People are usually struck by my candor and honesty. I have been told by others that I have a pretty smile and beautiful eyes, but I'll let you be the judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I just finished a book by a U.S. navy Seal,"Lone Sruvivor."
Plus I love reading Catherine coulter's FBI Series.
However, love the author Janet Evanovich, she writes goofy mysteries/suspense books. I have many other favorites, really too many to list here. Let's just say I love everything from Tom Clancey to Nora Roberts and a whole lot in between. I even get a good laugh(should I disclose this here?) at reading the Darwin Awards. Just don't ask me to read Stephen King, I won't sleep for a week. I love reading books that are related to my field of work.

In the food area, I love spicy foods, Mexican, Thai and Indian. As well as seafood, chocolate(although I try to avoid this )

I have recently tried both Greek and Ethiopian food and have found i enjoy them as well.
My musical taste range from classic rock, to hip hop, alternative, native American, nature pop, jazz, the blues along with other venues.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never live without family and friends, my pets,
intimacy, my sense of humor, serenity, laughter, iced green tea, almost forgot my computer. Oopsy, went over the limit. Is anyone counting?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering if people actually meet others through these dating sites... Not seriously, I think about a lot of differnt things. Get to me know me and yu'll find out...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not here. You'll have to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* You don't feel threatened by a strong and real woman...

* You are kind, genouine, trustworthy, and empathitic...

* You can think outside the box...

* Soemthing I wrote intrigued you...

* You are honest and trustworthy...