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StoneBerry

51 / M / straight / Single

Encinitas, California

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I am confident, persistent, and eclectic.

My Self-Summary

I've lived in San Diego for much of my life, presently near the beach. I have also lived in Europe, the S.F.Bay/Berkeley area, and have traveled far and wide, including up the Amazonas from the Brazilian coast to Iquitos, Peru. My aesthetic sensitivities attract me to natural (as opposed to contrived) things/people/places, and I prefer earthy rather than ethereal or assertive personalities and styles... Kilim carpets, arts & crafts revival, an emphasis on natural landscapes with native vegetation based on ecologically sensitive principles, etc... essentially Taoist in feeling, a need to comply with nature. Am fundamentally a patient and compassionate person, towards all beings great and small.

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What I’m doing with my life

am working in a technology field related to environmental studies.

I’m really good at

i can't talk about it here, but i do it with passion and stamina. ;)

The first things people usually notice about me

My quirky sense of humor.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like folk, jazz, and miscellaneous international music, especially afro-pop. I also enjoy classical which requires more deliberate focus.
Steve Earle, Kate Wolf, Mark Knopfler,...
I like natural and vegetarian food, thai, sushi, but also an occasional steak or rotisserie chicken. I love middle eastern cuisine too.
Movies... all kinds! Especially Michael Moore and The Yes Men.
Death at a Funeral totally cracked me up.
Books: I love Kafka... I also enjoy reading Fritjof Capra and Noam Chomsky. I totally recommend Erich Fromm, especially "The Art of Loving".

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The six things I could never do without

Food, clothing, shelter.
Also: Something to do, someone to love, something to look forward to.
well, I do love myself...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the woman i'm going to meet here...

On a typical Friday night I am

visiting friends and family

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

not much.

You should message me if

you want to message me.