: ) I hate scary movies, pure torture. I will watch one with you only if I lose a bet or you promise me something I really want.
I'm not a great cook, but I'll try. And if you cook, I will clean the hell out of the kitchen when we are done while you watch TV.
I am fun, I am funny, I'll take on almost any challenge you throw at me even if I know I wont win, I'd rather lose laughing, than not play.
I love dressing up for holidays, or anything actually. Love Tigers games, Hamtramck bars, Downtown, being in the moment, letting go of life for a while.
Dive bars, almost all music, but my fav is old school, Beastie Boys, Anita Baker, Phil Collins, Led Zepplin, Foreigner, Depeche Mode, RUN DMC,
I am attempting to find a funny, sarcastic, passionate, witty, clean cut, handsome man. Hard working, honest, ethical, compassionate. Genuine, tolerant, up lifting, forgiving, humble and patient. I know, Jesus already came and went, I missed my chance.... lol It just seems like a long list, it's only 14 but in reality, we could find hundreds of words that describe us. In my opinion, these are the qualities of a good man. Again, in my opinion they should come naturally in a persons disposition. This is who I am, just as I have described the kind of man I am looking for.
What I am not, and what you should not be; uptight, jealous, judgmental, materialistic, racist or demeaning.
I do some charity work and it seems, going from one scenario to another, people are so hung up on the things that really don't matter in life. They want to think they are better than a poor person, or need a lot of material things. I'm so over that guy. Work hard, have something and be proud of it, yes 100%. We are no better than how we treat another person.
Have flaws, have bills, have crazy days, have lazy days... all of that is ok, normal, expected. I wish I was that person that jumps out of bed runs to the elliptical, does 10 loads of laundry and eats breakfast before work. I'm more like hit snooze 10 times, play with the dogs for a second, jump in the shower, leave for work half dressed, forget something, turn around, leave again speed to work and punch in a minute (or 10) late. We try as hard as we can and when things don't work out you have to be able to roll with it.
Looks...? Attraction is extremely important. I find that I favor average to larger guys. Ya know, the guys that had to buy "husky" pants as a kid. : ) Hair? Muscles? Who cares. I'm not a tiny girl, not that I am embarrassed or ashamed of my size, I absolutely am not. I am very confident and for the most part I love my body, which is rare for women who aren't small. I want a man who is into a big girl. I need a man that LOVES it. I want to be touched and felt and rubbed and naked. I dont feel like I can be all that and get the attention I expect with a man that is on the fence about my size. I don't want there to be any misconception, for your sake and mine.
There are a couple things about relationships I truly believe to be true.
We are not one. We are separate individuals who think differently, act differently, have different opinions. With this, we can still have an amazing union.
People need alone time. Friend time, guys with the guys, girls with the girls. Poker, drinks, dinner... We can still have an amazing union.
I firmly believe "A lady in the streets..." If you don't get that reference, just ask. We will absolutely have an amazing union.
The happier you make your partner, the happier you partner will make you. 50/50.
Love whole heartedly, communicate, compromise, trust and be trustworthy. With these as a whole, all of them, this union is untouchable.
I would love to love whole heartedly and laugh often with someone. Every plan doesn't turn out the way we plan it. That is where we find out what we are made of.