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42 Eastpointe, MI Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 8
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Full figured
Trying to quit
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
80% good, 10% bad, 20% bad, for good reasons. Right, that means I'm 110% of Kick Ass!

Hello Gents,

: ) I hate scary movies, pure torture. I will watch one with you only if I lose a bet or you promise me something I really want.
I'm not a great cook, but I'll try. And if you cook, I will clean the hell out of the kitchen when we are done while you watch TV.
I am fun, I am funny, I'll take on almost any challenge you throw at me even if I know I wont win, I'd rather lose laughing, than not play.
I love dressing up for holidays, or anything actually. Love Tigers games, Hamtramck bars, Downtown, being in the moment, letting go of life for a while.
Dive bars, almost all music, but my fav is old school, Beastie Boys, Anita Baker, Phil Collins, Led Zepplin, Foreigner, Depeche Mode, RUN DMC,
Beatles, Doors.

I am attempting to find a funny, sarcastic, passionate, witty, clean cut, handsome man. Hard working, honest, ethical, compassionate. Genuine, tolerant, up lifting, forgiving, humble and patient. I know, Jesus already came and went, I missed my chance.... lol It just seems like a long list, it's only 14 but in reality, we could find hundreds of words that describe us. In my opinion, these are the qualities of a good man. Again, in my opinion they should come naturally in a persons disposition. This is who I am, just as I have described the kind of man I am looking for.

What I am not, and what you should not be; uptight, jealous, judgmental, materialistic, racist or demeaning.

I do some charity work and it seems, going from one scenario to another, people are so hung up on the things that really don't matter in life. They want to think they are better than a poor person, or need a lot of material things. I'm so over that guy. Work hard, have something and be proud of it, yes 100%. We are no better than how we treat another person.

Have flaws, have bills, have crazy days, have lazy days... all of that is ok, normal, expected. I wish I was that person that jumps out of bed runs to the elliptical, does 10 loads of laundry and eats breakfast before work. I'm more like hit snooze 10 times, play with the dogs for a second, jump in the shower, leave for work half dressed, forget something, turn around, leave again speed to work and punch in a minute (or 10) late. We try as hard as we can and when things don't work out you have to be able to roll with it.

Looks...? Attraction is extremely important. I find that I favor average to larger guys. Ya know, the guys that had to buy "husky" pants as a kid. : ) Hair? Muscles? Who cares. I'm not a tiny girl, not that I am embarrassed or ashamed of my size, I absolutely am not. I am very confident and for the most part I love my body, which is rare for women who aren't small. I want a man who is into a big girl. I need a man that LOVES it. I want to be touched and felt and rubbed and naked. I dont feel like I can be all that and get the attention I expect with a man that is on the fence about my size. I don't want there to be any misconception, for your sake and mine.

There are a couple things about relationships I truly believe to be true.
We are not one. We are separate individuals who think differently, act differently, have different opinions. With this, we can still have an amazing union.
People need alone time. Friend time, guys with the guys, girls with the girls. Poker, drinks, dinner... We can still have an amazing union.
I firmly believe "A lady in the streets..." If you don't get that reference, just ask. We will absolutely have an amazing union.
The happier you make your partner, the happier you partner will make you. 50/50.
Love whole heartedly, communicate, compromise, trust and be trustworthy. With these as a whole, all of them, this union is untouchable.

I would love to love whole heartedly and laugh often with someone. Every plan doesn't turn out the way we plan it. That is where we find out what we are made of.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working. I work Downtown Detroit, and I love it. I work lots of hours, to pay my own way.

Working to to be a better person. (I'm not a bad one or anything) I could be better at a lot of things. Staying motivated, getting more sleep, complimenting people. Saving more, learning more, living more, giving more. Day dreaming less, spell checking less, less this, more that.....Shall I go on? It is a day by day struggle and accomplishment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile. It is one of my favorite things to do. One liners. Mad Gab. Not the art of.... but the game of. Best game ever.
Cleaning. Really good at that. I am good at mismanaging my time. See how I made that a positive. State of mind folks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. My light hearted sarcasm. I usually have cherries at the bottom of my beer.

People often say "You look so mad" I have no idea why. It makes me so mad, jk, I think its so funny. I love to sit back and watch the people around me interact. I am sometimes reserved and other times extremely outgoing. I think it's a good balance, but I am almost never angry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There is a book, I have read 10 times. The Inferno, Dante. It is so complicated. It is almost a challenge to read. That's why I love it.

Not big on TV, sometimes I will watch The First 48, The Ridiculist, Missing, Law and Order, CSI, Criminal Minds, Bones. Storage Wars, HGTV, Dr .Drew, Anderson Cooper. Rarely will I watch a reality show, or any show that you have to watch faithfully, like a soap opera, in order to understand.

Love to read when I have the time, The news on line, Nat Geo, CNN. Crossword puzzles, though I'm not particularly smart, nor dumb, I think some of the words are made up and the crossword puzzle books at the dollar store are wrong and unsolvable, thus a dollar. lol I like to challenge myself.

Almost all types of music, I love The Barenaked Ladies, josh Groban, Dave Mathews, Cake, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Phil Collins, James Taylor. RUN DMC, The Fray, Beastie Boys, Toto, Whodini, Don Mclean, Duran Duran, Adel, Cher, jk, Toby Keith, Randy Travis, Keith Urban, Michael Buble, Sinatra.

yeah, all food...most recently more protien and veggies, less bread, and rice. I love sushi and steak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family & Friends, I POD, cleaning supplies, laughter, a piece of floss, a stick of gum. a pipe cleaner, tape, a paper clip, bobby pin, lint, my sisters husbands, a computer, good cup of joe, an alarm clock....wait 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future. What it holds, what I will make of it. Who is in it and who will not be.
What I will wear to work. Why I didn't go to bed earlier. What to buy at the grocery store, how to cook it and if I got all the stuff I need. Where I put my dam keys. How late I will be. Working out. I 'think' about that a lot. If my zipper is down.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a typical Friday. I like to stay in, I like to go out, I go to bed early, or late, or not at all. It depends on what is thrown at me and what I choose to catch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most private thing I am willing to admit, I see love all around me. I envy it. The people who are in it and have it. It makes me happy and it makes me sad.
I'd love to know the things you wouldn't dare put in this particular box. It's what holds us. A trust that grows with 'one slip and one catch' no matter how small or big.
You should message me if
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Message me if...Something about... you think I am funny and attractive. It has to be both. They are a team. I don't want you sitting in my ugly face all day just because I am awesome. And don't let me bore you just because I am beautiful. See how that team works?