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  • Ages 26–45
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Last online
May 17
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a nerd at heart in touch with my inner kid. I can be serious, but I also like to have fun from time to time and am open to trying new things out. I am more of a homebody; I prefer time at home to nights out on the town. That doesn't mean I don' t like to go to do things. An afternoon in the dog park with my dog, a trip to the Plaza, going to a museum, out to a movie, I enjoy live music, and going out to eat from time to time are some things I like to do. I have a dry sense of humor and am phlegmatic. I am attracted to women with intelligence, a good taste in movies and music. I love good conversation and connecting with people. I like small crowds to big crowds. I am a dog person, vegetarian, and spiritual.

I am contemplative, shy, and hopeful
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in an operations/fraud department for a bank. So I've settled into my full time job but it doesn't mean I don't want to work for more and something better. I try to put my best effort in what is given to me and to look at what comes in my life as a gift or an opportunity to learn and improve for the future. I like to save money for the future (such as wanting to buy a home in the near future!) When I am not working, I enjoy spending time on my hobbies (music, movies, writing...) and connecting with friends online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good at writing and drawing, but feel I am a better writer than artist. (I am also close to finishing my first novel and hope to get it published! It's a science fiction novel. If I could write full time and make a living off of it, I would. It's really the main thing that drives me.)

I have also made music in my spare time, when the spare time allows and the ideas come to me.

I am also capable in the a vegetarian/vegan, I have to make many of my own meals at home!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Gee, they never told me! I guess my eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like sci-fi but I like to read other types of books as well, ranging from John Green to Kurt Vonnegut and non fiction books.

I like a wide range of movies, too. People have told me I am hard to figure out when they see what I pick for movies. I can go for something more arty as Wings of Desire then turn around and watch something more general and popcorn type like Avengers. I am a nerd and geek at heart so most of my movie choices center around those genres, though. I also follow directors more than I follow actors or actresses.

Way, way far too many to name. A trip through my MP3 collection would likely seem like different people added to it. I like just about anything and everything, but I have certain genres/artists I like the least and some not at all.

Favorite genre would be alt rock, but certainly not only that.

With TV, I tend to gravitate towards shows like Lost or Breaking Bad. I am not so much in to procedural type shows or shows that follow a familiar format every episode. Most sit-coms bore me, but there are a few I like...the more offbeat type of comedies. I also am a fan of British TV.

Vegetarian all the way, and not ever going to change.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, especially vegetarian/vegan food
Water--seriously, this is my favorite drink of all time!
Shelter--I gotta live somewhere!
Some kind of source of income--money isn't everything, but it sure helps!
My dog (though. realistically, I know one day I will have to...)
Good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe and everything. And thanking you for the fish.

I can't turn off my morbid "what if" thing that I seem to like to do. I think it fuels my creative side, however.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with my dog watching a favorite TV show or movie. I also take time out to work on my novel.

That's not to say I prefer just staying at home. I would go out and do things with the right person. I just don't like going to different places alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gee, I already gave you a glimpse of some of my inner thoughts...what more could you want?

The rest is for me to know and for you to find out!
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