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38 M Gresham, OR

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:08am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for that person who I can't wait to see naked, and she can't wait to see me naked.

I am looking for that person who wants to hear about my dreams and my day and wants to share her dreams and her day.

I am looking for that person who believes in who I am and what I can do and I believe in who she is and what she can do.

Is that person you?

I don't know.

I think anything is possible. The only impossibility comes from inaction.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do this right now, and it is the best thing I have ever done:

I am also really good at my job, which involves helping people get better at their jobs. It can be very rewarding. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people open up and feel good about themselves, because everyone is special and everyone deserves happiness. (I'm sort of a sexy Mr. Rogers, and I didn't say that about myself) :-)

My therapist just recently told me I am one of the most congruent men she has ever met. Evidently that means that my emotions, thoughts and actions are all closely related. So, for the most part, I say and act as I feel.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Without a doubt, it's my sugalumps!

Sometimes it's my eyes (if the girls can look me in them, seriously... sugalumps!)

I think right now it is usually how nice my head looks without hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to like really intellectual things, or as the kids in high school would affectionately call "nerdy" as they punched me in the arm. I can talk about any subject, but the way to my heart has some sort of "-ology" behind it. Examples: biology, sociology, psychology... It doesn't really need an "-ology", but you catch my drift. :-)

Here is my favorite song: "Fearless" by Pink Floyd

My favorite bands are The Catherine Wheel, The Afghan Whigs, Radiohead, and pretty much everything from 1994-2003. Also, for some reason lately I've been really into pop music that I would have made fun of 10 years ago.

My favorite types of books are thoughtful science fiction and self-improvement books. I spend a ridiculous amount of time in my car for work, so I have kind of switched to audiobooks. Currently I am reading "Think Like a Freak" and just finished"Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas".

I am really into smart science-fiction, comedies and I love a good horror film. Mostly, I'm into movies that allow for a lot of fun discussion either during the movie (because it's bad) or after the movie (because it was so good, or bad...). Dramas are particularly good for this. "Her" was amazing.

I am also really into podcasts, but I am growing weary of the "sit around a table and talk"-isodes, so I started making one that doesn't do that and plan on making more! (See above)

Now, tell me the stuff you like because I like to experience new stuff! :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My car (because I'm in it, a lot)
- My bed (It is ridiculously awesome with or without me) ;-)
- My Dutch oven. (It's kind of amazing)
- My podcast
- Real, true intimacy both physically and emotionally.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Evolution. I know, weird right? But I don't think about evolution going backwards, I think about how things are going to affect us in future generations.

I think about what happened to the bad guys to make them bad guys. Movies are terrible at explaining this.

How to build the perfect OKC profile. It has to exist, right? Also why the girls that would seem to have the most in common with me and would be enjoyable to be with tend to never reply back... Do I have some sort of computer halitosis? Are there USB Altoids?

Lately I have been thinking a great deal about relationships and what makes them successful. I think I've found the formula...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Half of them are at home, the other half are open to experimentation. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am on this site because I don't like going to bars. I don't like going to bars because I never know where to sit. True story.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You are not a slave to the misoginistic social concept that the man always has to initiate. Super sexy, by the way.

You have a desire to go out with someone who is curteous, kind, complimentary and entertaining.

There is a desire to ravage my body... ;-)