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39 • Gresham, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Mar 19
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Sales / Marketing
- Has kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently)
I also work a day job and help other people get better at what they are doing.
I have been getting really good at listening to people and understanding rather than doing all of the other dumb stuff we do during conversation.
Currently, the thing I am told most often, is that I look much better in person than I do in my pictures. So I am better-looking AND I am terrible at having my picture taken.
Music is a little different. I think sharing music is really important and can really let people in. So, here's what I have done: I have given you my top 5 artists, albums and a link to the song on that album I would really like you to listen to. Ready?
This is my favorite song of all time:
Pink Floyd | Fearless | http://youtu.be/uCgQuj8v2gg
And albums in no particular order:
Afghan Whigs | 1965 | http://youtu.be/MIJOFF3aPFI
Catherine Wheel | Adam and Eve | http://youtu.be/FO9WfBVx9-o
London Suede | Dog Man Star | http://youtu.be/k43SuOgFZgM
Radiohead | In Rainbows | http://youtu.be/8nTFjVm9sTQ
David Bowie | Changes | http://youtu.be/oP2SS8ggLtU
Also, my #1 book recommendation is "The Four Agreements". If there is a problem, yo this will solve it.
The Four Agreements
There is a hole in your heart and a fantastic story about a guy on a nude beach who finds out something wonderful about himself is the perfect story to fill it.
Something about the fact that I am writing a book about relationships interests you, or if you just want to understand why a 39 year-old devorcee has any right to write a book on the subject. (To which I say, good point)
You think I'm cute and want to see me in real life to check on this whole "looks cuter in real life" thing.
Find yourself bored and want to pitch some sort of an idea for sketch or, perhaps, even your own podcast that you would like me to produce for you!
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