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37 M Northcliff, South Africa

My Details

Last Online
Apr 10
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary

I'm passionate, ambitious and driven guy. I'm a musician, and have been for as long as I can remember. I love music, all different kinds for different reasons... but i'm not a hippy. i'm not into the whole "lets sit around the fire, get stoned and jam." I'm into hard work and focussed success. Success for me is being the best that I can be... its not about selling millions of albums.

I've worked as a graphic designer as well, and a windsurfing instructor in the Caribbean. More than anything, I think it's really important to know why we are here. Understand the motivation behind everything you do. I Know who I am, I know what I want... and i'm looking forward to meet the girl i'm going to go there with ;)
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment i'm working on a new show. I pretty much practice 8 hours a day and perform 5 nights a week. Idivide my practice between trumpet, guitar and singing. I'm travelling, and at the moment am in the dominican republic. its a great way to live very cheaply and work on new music without the financial demands of an expensive city.
I’m really good at
Good at making friends with animals, making paper aeroplanes, and finding the strengths and beauty in other people. I'm also a pretty good musician and designer.
The first things people usually notice about me
My exotic accent because i'm travelling... or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love books. I have a constant thirst for knowledge. At home there are books everywhere. Philosophy, self help, business and management books, psychology, novels, travel, music, interior design and architecture, and more books on design than I care to mention. Some dog eared with coffee stains, some in mint condition. One of my favorite books is a coffee table book about cigars, made from recycled tobacco paper from Guatamala.

But the fabric of my soul is woven with music. That's where I really come alive. I have been a musician for as long as I can remember, from waking my parents up singing as an infant, to playing for 50000 people at festivals. I love all different kinds of music for different reasons. I love pop music for the production, hard rock for the intensity, electronic music for the amazing sonic landscape, classical for the amazing sensitivity and interpretation, jazz for the raw passion. But ultimately music is about how it makes you feel... from the raw sexual energy of dance music in your hips, to the poetic introspection of well crafted folk songs, talking about music just doesn't work. As Frank Zappa said... Talking about music is like fishing about architecture.

When it comes to food... I'm a little more functional. For many, food is a sensual experience and an opportunity to share. I see food a little differently. Ultimately it's about fueling my body with good healthy nutrition so that I can function at optimum physical condition.

I love sushi, the raw freshness and the wasabi explosion. I love fresh fruit and cold water, granola and yoghurt, and good, fresh machine coffee.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time trying not to think about thinking., being in the moment and connecting to my source energy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying the cool ocean breeze on my balcony, working on some new music or some light reading maybe tv... or practicing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's really embarrassing, but I was holding back tears watching the notebook.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are an intelligent, confident and passionate woman. You have style and a good sense of design. You love looking good and feeling good. You are fit and healthy, self assured. You have nothing to prove. You know who you are and what you want. You are spiritually evolved and emotionally mature.