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24 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:26pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I change this summary quite frequently, mostly because I try to make its contents reflect my current philosophical state-of-mind. Most of the time I just make myself sound a lot more "out there" than I really am. I'll cut to the chase: I like to think deeply about a lot of things. To me, it makes the world more vibrant. Details and underlying form are important. I am looking for someone who feels the same excitement when learning something new about the world, even if it is something as esoteric as carbon-nitrogen-oxygen cycle catalyzing the fusion reaction converting hydrogen to helium in high-mass stars.

Ultimately, I am here to find a connection with someone who is as excited about the world and all its splendor as I am--someone who can look at a star in the sky, say it's beautiful, and then nonchalantly comment on the fact that it's a giant thermonuclear fusion reaction.
What I’m doing with my life
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By day I'm a geologist for an environmental engineering firm.
By night I'm a curious intellectual and observer, absorbing information and culture through the media of foods, music, books, and people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Letting loose on the dance floor (technique not guaranteed).
- Taking a conversation into existential territory far too quickly.
- Remembering things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get a lot of comments about my jawline and eyes.
I inject alliteration and rhyming into normal conversation (with mixed results).
I am empathic and tend to reflect the demeanor of whomever I'm interacting with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently Reading:
- 'Infinite Jest' by David Foster Wallace
- 'Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance' by Robert Pirsig (for the second or third time)
- 'Man in the Landscape: A Historic View of the Esthetics of Nature' by Paul Shepard
Semi-recently Finished:
- 'Both Flesh and Not' by David Foster Wallace
- 'Foucault's Pendulum' by Umberto Eco
- 'Candide' by Voltaire

Films: 2001: A Space Odyssey, The Machinist, and In Bruges.

Shows: Utopia, Utopia (again), Utopia (it's really great), Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead

Music: I have a very eclectic taste. Sometimes I just want to rock out to the energy of classic rock, and other times relax and absorb some jazz. Right now I'm listening to God Speed You, Black Emperor!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Curiosity
2. The question "why?"
3. Introspection
4. Mathematics (in the literal sense, not in the figurative "actionable" sense)
5. The written word
6. Aesthetics (in the philosophical sense)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- The colors of things.
- What the conversations between plants would be like if they had the capacity to observe people walking down the street (and converse).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically I'll grab a couple drinks with coworkers in friends. Some nights I cook myself a nice dinner and relax with some music or a movie. Sometimes I'll just read.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a soft spot for the sound of a violin, but the sound of an accordion takes the cake.
You should message me if
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Anything in my profile interests you. I don't bite (in messages). Go ahead.