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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 11, 2014
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Has cats
My self-summary
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Interests: Rare violins, classical violin and piano music, pop music, weightlifting, healthy eating, wine, all things paranomal, conspiracy theories, cars, real estate, travel, psychology, dermatology.

I would like to meet grounded, stable, empathic, emotionally mature guys for friendship or a relationship. I work in healthcare research. I spend my free time enjoying the incredible company of my friends, playing piano/violin, listening to music and watching movies/TV, enjoying my neighborhood, obsessively researching one topic or another, and relaxing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it to the fullest, while staying true to my values.
I’m really good at
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Listening, caring, storytelling, playing violin, driving, reading others, and learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my randomness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classical music (violin, piano, and orchestral): Pamela Ross, Sarah Chang, Gil Shaham, Itzhak Perlman, Joshua Bell, Midori, Maxim Vengerov.

Non-classical music: Celine Dion, Emeli Sande, Ellie Goulding, Eva Cassidy, Henry Mancini, Michael Jackson, Cher, Britney Spears, Sarah McLachlan, Kelly Clarkson, Ingrid Michaelson, Kylie Minogue, Scissor Sisters.

TV Shows: Brothers and Sisters, Desperate Housewives, Kathy Griffin, Sex and The City, Cops, Monk, Flipping Out, The Office, Scrubs, ER, Ghost Hunters, Forensic Files, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Apprentice, Law and Order, Six Feet Under, Queer as Folk, American Idol, Real Housewives of nearly every city, Chelsea Lately, The Big C, X-Factor, The Voice, The Mad Men, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

Movies: Silver Linings Playbook, We're the Millers, Edward Scissorhands, Meet Joe Black, Angels in America, Bruce Almighty, Little Children, The Royal Tenenbaums, August Rush, Latter Days, Clue, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Serial Mom, Titanic, The Hours, The Graduate, Marvin's Room, And The Band Played On, National Lampoons Movies (those with Chevy Chase), Home Alone, Amelie, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (Gene Wilder and Johnny Depp versions), The Goonies, Ordinary People, The Break Up.

Books: Tuesdays With Morrie, The Man Who Would Be Queen, The Great Gatsby, The Secret, On Borrowed Time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My amazing, inspiring, supportive friends
2. My loving, one-of-a-kind cat, Paris
3. Violin/Piano - the ability to express myself through both
4. Celine Dion
5. The ability to be moved, touched, and inspired by music and film
6. Empathy and compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to better myself, how I can make a meaningful difference in the lives of others and help people/friends be happy, when I will next see Celine Dion perform, what kind of wine I will be drinking, and how humid it will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a blast with friends, whether it be a night in with movies and wine or a crazy night out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sit in the backseat of my car with a glass of wine watching Celine Dion DVDs.
You should message me if
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You do not suffer from narcisstic personality disorder, you have genuine empathy for others, you value the importance of friends, you appreciate quirky guys, you are not annoyed by Celine Dion, you would like to share some wine, and you are more interested in a relationship than random sex.