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32 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Jul 16
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Interests: Rare violins, classical violin and piano music, pop music, weightlifting, healthy eating, wine, all things paranomal, conspiracy theories, cars, real estate, travel, psychology, dermatology.

I would like to meet grounded, stable, empathic, emotionally mature guys for friendship or a relationship. I work in healthcare research. I spend my free time enjoying the incredible company of my friends, playing piano/violin, listening to music and watching movies/TV, enjoying my neighborhood, obsessively researching one topic or another, and relaxing.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it to the fullest, while staying true to my values.
I’m really good at
Listening, caring, storytelling, playing violin, driving, reading others, and learning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Classical music (violin, piano, and orchestral): Sarah Chang, Gil Shaham, Itzhak Perlman, Joshua Bell, Midori, Maxim Vengerov, Minghuan Xu, Pamela Ross.

Non-classical music: Celine Dion, Cher, Britney Spears, Henry Mancini, Eva Cassidy, Sarah McLachlan, Kelly Clarkson, Adam Lambert, Bette Midler, Michael Jackson, Ingrid Michaelson, Lady Gaga, Kylie Minogue, Rascal Flatts, Scissor Sisters.

TV Shows: Brothers and Sisters, Desperate Housewives, Kathy Griffin, Sex and The City, Cops, Monk, Flipping Out, The Office, Scrubs, ER, Ghost Hunters, Forensic Files, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Apprentice, Law and Order, Six Feet Under, Queer as Folk, American Idol, Real Housewives of nearly every city, Chelsea Lately, The Big C, X-Factor, The Voice, The Mad Men, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

Movies: Edward Scissorhands, Meet Joe Black, Angels in America, Bruce Almighty, Little Children, The Royal Tenenbaums, August Rush, Latter Days, Clue, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Serial Mom, Titanic, The Hours, The Graduate, Marvin's Room, And The Band Played On, National Lampoons Movies (those with Chevy Chase), 9 To 5, Home Alone, Amelie, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (Gene Wilder and Johnny Depp versions), The Goonies, Ordinary People, Titanic, The Break Up.

Books: Tuesdays With Morrie, The Man Who Would Be Queen, The Great Gatsby, The Secret, On Borrowed Time.
The six things I could never do without
1. My amazing, inspiring, supportive friends
2. My loving, one-of-a-kind cat, Paris
3. Violin/Piano - the ability to express myself through both
4. Celine Dion
5. The ability to be moved, touched, and inspired by music and film
6. Empathy and compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to better myself, how I can make a meaningful difference in the lives of others and help people/friends be happy, when I will next see Celine Dion perform, what kind of wine I will be drinking, how often I should dust/vacuum, and how humid it will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a blast with friends, whether it be a night in with movies and wine or a crazy night out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sit in the backseat of my car with a glass of wine watching Celine Dion DVDs.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You do not suffer from narcisstic personality disorder, you have genuine empathy for others, you value the importance of friends, you appreciate quirky guys, you are not annoyed by Celine Dion, you would like to share some wine, and you are more interested in a relationship than random sex.