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32 M Medford, MA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:20pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
When drinking
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First, a disclaimer:

I can talk ad infinitem about many things. One thing I cannot do is write a decent email that is not, in some way, tech or job related (unless your first email is directly asking me a computer question or about what it takes to be a reference/systems librarian, my emails will tend to peter out).

This means that I much prefer chatting to emailing (either with a chat program, over the phone, or in person).

Second, the shameless self promotion:

I'm strange, weird, funny, teddy bear, and philosopher. A little bit of warrior in there somewhere. Most of the time I enjoy simple things. I love reading, I try writing from time to time (I have more story beginnings than I care to admit), and I'm an avid video gamer. And while I admit that seems to be a bit of a deal breaker for some, I will say that the reasons I have for playing most games primarily deal with plot and story. I love a good story, no matter the form (book, movie, game) and I can be rather picky about it.

At the moment, I'm still searching for someone to help me try and find new experiences and explorations.

Kind of a side note, I love to cook, but I hate cooking for myself; if that makes any sense at all.

Speaking of food: I need crockpot recipes. Just a small point I'd like to throw out there. Crockpots are awesome.

All that said, I'm always looking for friends.

P.S. God inspired the invention of the Gibson Les Paul. R.I.P. Les Paul.

P.P.S. I don't care what OkCupid says, I'm not a *^%$ing republican!!
What I’m doing with my life
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At the moment, trying to make sure I don't kill myself riding.

Trying like mad to get in shape. It's slow going... :(

Other than those, I wish I could make writing a full-time job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Video games, poker, debates, making people laugh, being a sarcastic bastard, daydreaming. You know, the usual.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Two words: Teddy Bear. If that doesn't work, think of it like this. You know the movie Monsters, Inc.? you know Sully? there's a reason my nickname is Kitty (damn that movie!!! Although it is one of my favorites, next to Finding Nemo).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorites, huh? Well, I can't really refine some of them, but here it goes. a) For books, I'll just say that Robert Heinlein kicks so much ass. b) Movies are a grab bag. c) One really, really cool band is Nightwish. They stand at the top of the list. d) I dunno, all sorts of things.

Ok, Because I don't think above is good enough as far as music is concerned, and because I'm more than a little bored, here is the Top 25 Most Played playlist (in reverse order):
25. Calling - Himuro Kyosuke
24. Leaving Earth (Heavy Metal Cover) - Sebdoom
23. Lorelei - The Pogues
22. Your Love - The Outfield
21. Psychosocial - Slipknot
20. Calypso - John Denver
19. Barrett's Privateers - Stan Rogers
18. The Reach - Dan Fogelberg
17. Losing My Religion - Lacuna Coil
16. The Bomb - Neuroticfish
15. Once in a Lifetime - Wolfsheim
14. Blind Faith/One Day Mashup - Dylan Vasey
13. Moonlight Shadow - DJ Mystik
12. The Enchantment - Sheila Chandra
11. Hard to See - Five Finger Death Punch
10. The Boys of Summer - The Ataris
9. Southern Cross - Crosby, Stills, and Nash
8. Daylight Again - Crosby, Stills, and Nash
7. Last Ride of the Day - Nightwish
6. Born in the USA - Bruce Springsteen
5. 12th Day - Autopilot Off
4. Say You'll Haunt Me - Stone Sour
3. Open Your Eyes - Sad Alice Said
2. Happens All the Time - Cold
1. Breath - Breaking Benjamin
The six things I could never do without
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First off, I don't feel this can truly be quantified, because I'm pretty sure I can come up with a list easily longer than six of things that are biologically required for life to continue. However, should I be forced to name those things that I would miss greatly (family and friends are a given) should they no longer be available to me:

1. My Motorcycle (2001 Honda Gold Wing GL1800)
2. Music
3. Really good beer
5. The ability to count
G. A sense of the ironic
E. If you get the numbering for this one, I will love you forever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Motorcycles. I can't help it. There is something very liberating about riding; it's also highly intoxicating.

You know how, because of some moron we now have to have coffee cups say "Warning: Contents May be Hot!" on them? Well, I wonder why we can't turn the tables and simply label the people who are too stupid to be trusted with anything more dangerous than a wooden spoon. "Warning: This person can't be trusted with their own safety."

So, yeah, that's something else I think about.

Also, Helicopter parents need to pop a ritalin and chill the hell out. Your kid isn't going to die if they play in the dirt and scrape their knees.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I wish I could say that I was one of those "cool" people who always has a plan to go out of Friday nights, but, really, I'd be just as happy (probably happier, truth be told) riding over to Kelly's on the Beach and getting a large roast beef sandwich, or lounging around with friends and shooting-the-shit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't really think of anything. I tend to be rather blunt. Just ask and I'll probably tell you.

I dream of one day summiting Chomolungma (Everest. Chomolungma sounds nicer and translates to Mother Goddess of the Earth. Better than some stuffy Englishman's last name).

There are two things I will not get rid of: my bike and my goatee.

And, for the truly curious, ask me about my Harley Rant.

However, if seriously pressed, it would be that I am fairly intimidated by people who have traveled extensively. I'm not sure why.
You should message me if
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You're interested in making a new friend. No fuss, no bother, just a friend. I've got that down pat, it seems.

I would also accept you are looking for someone to go on motorcycle rides with. (Listen, if you ride and wrench your own motorcycle, I'm probably hooked already.)

Also, if you're a lover of riddles. Can't get enough of them. So I will present a simple one here:

The man who builds me has no need for me;
The man who buys me does not want me;
The man who uses me has no idea I'm being used.

Especially message me if the chorus of Unknown Legend by Neil Young speaks to you in some way.