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Stranded_in_PA

29 / M / Straight / Single

Berwyn, Pennsylvania

His Details

Last Online
Dec 2, 2012
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other

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My self-summary
Hi Just cleaning up my old run-along profile I had for something shorter and sweeter.
Wish I had the energy for short n sweet, it's 2:40 in the morning. I just woke up from sleeping for 5 1/2 hours... Not again!? I work too hard to not be sleeping right now :)
What I’m doing with my life
Saving My money while doing home improvement projects where i'm staying.; I am a boarder till things start looking up for me, but breeding guppies in the meantime ;) hey, we all gotta have a hobby =I
I’m really good at
Handyman. Good Listener. Staring contests. Bicycling.
Reading People, Listening, Being Honest, Helping People, Figuring Out How Things Work, Finding Solutions. cooking mad good food. saying "no". making women comfortable and making men uncomfortable. saying, "yes", skiing, splitting logs.
The first things people usually notice about me
He's tall, and calm. I do get chatty sometimes ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
On nights like tonight, I watched 3 episodes in a row of 'Big Bang Theory' :)
The last movie I saw that I liked was "Super"

I like retro/folk/weird music~ July, Beirut, Fifty Foot Hose, Kevin Ayers, Bjork, Devotchka, ABBA, Santigold

I like to Jam/Rock~ IRON MAIDEN (seen them in concert 4 times), Opeth, In Flames

I like to bob~ RJD2, Thievery Corporation

::FOOD:: Hummus with ritz crackers or tortillas and an IPA is heaven.
Cheese is good.
I make my own pizza.
HUGE ULTIMATE SALADS (ritz crackers or croutons, red onion, shredded cheese, grated aged parmesean cheese. FF ranch+ Bleu cheese dressing mixed together. al on top of raw spinach)
I also tend to make Mexican Style Dishes often.
The six things I could never do without
hair ties, vitamins, pocketknife, Hope, Patience, a brain.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Attention: the following message is only a product of boredom, but if i wasnt so unoccupied I wouldn't have been thinking, and I know my thoughts know me better than anyone.

So without futher adieu, My take on the PHRASE, "The light at the end of the tunnel".

If life seems tough, If you are going through some dark times, If the only light is at the END of the tunnel, then lets just .. build a campfire right here right now in this, our tunnel we are in, and take a rest, have a picnic, a pause. Talk about how smart we were to have thought of it.
We all started out running strong, running blinded by the hope of reaching those goals in life we all imagine. I am envisioning the inside of my tunnel as if to walk from end to end through a motel with those "room connecting doors", well sorta....I am seeing all the objects, people, and the interactions ahead and behind in the wide open tunnel of life, and indeed; a light at the very end. And at the end, that moment when there is nothing left ahead of you in the tunnel, and you are ready to die; all you can do now is look backwards on all the life you have gone through to get to this point. One may ask themselves, "What does it all mean"?

If you examine the phrase scientifically you will notice that the physical properties of light prevents all inside the tunnel from seeing anything in front of them, except "silhouettes" for there is no light "In" the tunnel to reflect.....:The Future Is Unclear:
The future's outline IS projected on the stuff around us and ourselves, our own torsos are the projector's screens, yet we all too often struggle to see the future, so we try to guess just what we see in the shadows cast from the life ahead. The shadows we wear could be of good things or bad, The light and darkness in each of us. The moments of clarity and hope or feelings of fear and confusion passing over us while we press on towards the new sihouettes we draw ever nearer to...

As we question what we are seeing up ahead in our tunnels, ~~we can only look upon the past for answers!!! all the casted shadows from what is ahead in the tunnel FALL ON THE OBJECTS IN THE LIFE YOU HAVE ALREADY LIVED. AS WELL AS THE LIGHT --> (*) FROM THE END OF THE TUNNEL. YOU MUST HAVE PASSED AN OBJECT IN THE TUNNEL TO BE ABLE TO SEE IT'S REFLECTED LIGHT, BUT BY THAT TIME IT IS ALREADY IN THE PAST AND YOU CAN"T GO BACK, you cant redo whats already behind, you, whats already visible,,,that would make life too easy... and that brings up another word to mind..."HINDSIGHT"!! ...
All we can see AHEAD in the tunnel is an outline of the future, but when we reach whatever it was we thought we saw in the outline,, it could turn out to be something different. Won't truly know until we get there.

So how about that campfire...tonight!...so that all around us in the tunnel of life may become clearer. for a while anyways. I bet we could see a little what's up ahead too!

The light at the end of the tunnel isnt the only thing burning bright.
On a typical Friday night I am
lately i just watch Jeopardy and WOF with the lady here. the family here goes to bed at 9 so i pretty much find an interesting documentary or watch Nature/NOVA and sleep on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really dig ABBA songs. pretty much can sing most of them. i get chills.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you can appreciate, you are in a relaxed state.
The exceptionals...Those who may have enjoyed reading my "thought" section, and I mean "really". I don't remember the moment I came up with that, but if you and I were together then...Yeah, i miss having friends around during epiphany time... Also message me if u like, know where any pinball machines are. Message me if u just want to hear a wise and caring perspective for a change. Message me because I would really love to get one from somebody on here, I think my inbox is broken :|