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Strayhugs

42 M Houston, TX

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You need to know that I am a coconut (brown outside, white inside). :-) A product of a mixed relations marriage that is still being celebrated today (40 years). Race is not terribly important to me, but I've found out the hard way that it sometimes is to others.

Currently looking for someone to play Monica to my Chandler. LTR & kids figure prominently.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not sure, really. I want a serious relationship, but I NEED someone to simply hang out with. Someone to make plans with once or twice a month, time & $ willing and go DO something. While I am picky about what I do and where I go, I'm open to influence and suggestion when something doesn't "sound" fun. I need to have an out of country experience and I haven't yet accomplished the first step of preparation (passport).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. It really is a favorite thing to do; to conversationally explore someone else's viewpoints. To flesh out all perspectives of an issue (the dramatic, the realistic, the worst case scenario) and NOT excluding the wildly ridiculous (the funny), sort of like the pace of a Friends episode! :-) I opine that I'm good at listening because I enjoy it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will default to honesty, because (if this question is supposed to be answered in a way that (attractively) markets oneself then my honesty is going to stab me in the back. I can be incredibly nervous the first time I meet with someone, so much so that I often get tongue-tied and come across far less intelligent & far more clumsy than I actually am. Well, just less intelligent. I'm STUCK with clumsy, comes with Murphy. I've also gotten used to the taste of shoe, I'll let you guess why. BUT I'm not afraid to be corrected, or (as I like to see it) given a different take on any given subject!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a serious movie (on dvd) buff. Currently into television series like Sons of Anarchy, Parenthood, House & Nurse Jackie. I'm not averse to reading but I don't feel I've read a lot to claim any "implied brownie points" for being cultured or well versed. Food? Don't know. Too many choices, not enough refined taste on my part. Music I enjoy doesn't fit in any one genre. Probably easier to say that I don't care for cajun, bluegrass, zydeco or tejano. Music is a universal tool of expression and any tune can find someone's attraction. Am an avid gamer, so define that however you will. I won't deny it and if I have to defend it, we're wasting your time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In an unidentifiable order...
Fall (Love)
Winter (Warcraft)
Spring (Euphoric awakening)
Summer (cheating with this whole category, yes, I know)
Air Conditioning (There's a reason God put me in THIS century)
My pets (Linus & Bouncer)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
As I imagine "Sheldon" from "The Big Bang Theory" show could quite possibly articulate, "We spend an inordinate amount of time deluding ourselves to the stark reality of the laws as applied to large numbers."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...filling out another silly essay/survey/questionnaire for a personals site in another vain attempt to connect with someone special. ...obviously. Okay, not really. A typical Friday nite will catch me relieved that the weekend is here and usually at the gym. Since everyone else has a Fiday night life, all that gym equipment is just sitting there, unused!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've had my eyebrows plucked once. Why on earth women go through so much pain to look "gorgeous", I'll never understand. You DO know looks are fleeting, right? You're not gonna look the same at 50, 60, 70 or 80. Think on that for crying out loud. SOME pains just aren't worth it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you'd like to trade e-mails, giving hints and peeks into each others lives without the pressure of "OMG, what if he's racist" or "Cripes, what if she drinks like a fish" or any broad range of fears one feels on first dates. Or, I will ALWAYS welcome & invite your input/suggestion.