Recurring foci in my life include conversation on a variety of subjects, various varieties of kink, plants and the outdoors, mindful happiness, sculpture, dancing, and reading. I enjoy gardening, cooking, rock climbing, long walks, good food, growing food, massages, and challenges. I spend much more time immersed in real life than on the internet or watching television.
I am picky and intense in my romantic and sexual relationships. Sarcasm and adversarial teasing come as naturally to me as do tenderness and caring. Honesty and backbone are traits I value in others but I also don't condone hurting people through carelessness, inattention, or malice.
I believe in personal responsibility and high standards.
If I get back to you right now it will be unusual; I am doing work, relearning hobbies, and 1.5 relationships right now and those eat all my time.
I am bratty, sadistic, and real