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45 Sebastopol, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 28
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Special Diet
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My life is a back-and-forth diplomacy effort between urban and wilderness. Those two may seem incompatible but I'm trying to show them they can get along.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Conjuring ideas, collaborating, writing, exploring with friends and alone. I wander and seek the unexpected. When I find it I want a front row seat but then somehow I end up there on the stage.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making complicated things simple.
Making thimple sings complicated.
Hiking in the dark.
Swimming in lentils.
Getting excited.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm lookin' at them. Or that I'm not.

That I've got enthusiastic curiosity above fashionable levels, above casual levels, above dork levels, and sometimes even above eyeball levels. Strongly curious.

For this they say I'm odd. In person, they say I'm friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Weird that this category doesn't also include visual art. I have favorite muralists and sculptors.

I tend toward documentaries and nonfiction, but I love thoughtful, novel creativity in all media. I admire brave journalism.

I write quickly but read exceptionally slowly. I stop to caress any phrases I especially appreciate.

I'm all about noncommercial music (such as us singing together la la).

I love cooking from scratch without a recipe. Right now I appear to be roasting up an indigestible profile with a side of sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ah! An ingredient list without the recipe...just my style.


1. That lightbulb moment
1. Meeting guileless laughers
1. Smelling forest air
1. Wide variety of cheap ethnic savors
1. The counting numbers
1. Harmony
1. Skepticism
Am I getting near six things yet?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Weather. Water. Treppverters: what I could have said, bashfully rehearsed after missing a chance to say it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Living sweetly, enjoying the unlikely privilege of being without much stress at a time when most people's lives are tumultuous.

Of course this is only the case on Friday nights.

I'm not a drinker, but not quite a teetotaler. My aversion isn't about the drinks. It's the drink-devoted people or drinking places and events. Not my cup of tea, or water.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like doing things as much as you like imagining them or talking about them.

You're wondering, laughing or humming.
You have an idea. World citizens especially welcomed.

You are physical and sweet and 'dlike to meet.

Despite what it says in the official OK Gluepit records, I do not live in Sebastopol. I've barely been there. I live smack in the middle of San Francisco.