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Strumart

34 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Apr 14
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've grown up and lived out in the country for a large part of my life. Being in a quiet and spread out area has definitely developed into who I am. I will never be the bullshitter, or person that needs to keep dialogue going because uncomfortable silence is not awkward to me. Silence can actually be quite relaxing. If you're reading this and it's saying introvert you may be right.
With that out of the way, I enjoy picking up instruments and improvising on them for a while. Music and doing anything creative is very rewarding for me. I plan on starting a band again sometime soon and believe music has to remain a part of who I am regardless of what I do.
I also enjoy cooking. I feel I'm a decent cook since i can imagine flavor combinations decently.
I'm a pretty big SF giants fan. I may have watched 130 of the 162 games thinking back at it. I'm not the guy in the background of the camera shot holding up 1 finger stating we're number one though. I can comfortably say however that I am a bay area sports fan and not anti-A's. I always support the local teams, it's just in most parts Giants since I was a kid.
I really am a bit old fashioned as far as mannerisms and dedication goes. I'm not some douche that thinks the world was built around me.
My beard I have had since before I was legal to drive a car. I can probably count on both hands the amount of times I have been completely clean shaven. I've been told I clean up nice, but how do you take that as a compliment after you've always had facial hair..
What I’m doing with my life
I'm enjoying it. Not long ago I received my bartending degree so I'm taking that on. I also am completing a degree for teaching ESL, perhaps taking it abroad someday.
I’m really good at
I wouldn't feel right saying I'm really good at anything per se. Sounds funny to say I'm really good at, "blank". What I could say is there are a lot of things I don't suck at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I haven't noticed people saying wow you are, "something something." People that know my brother will almost always say I look nothing like my brother. We used to look almost identical.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really like Palahniuk for reading. Currently am working on, "Stiff", by Mary Roach and enjoying it. I never really get too into heavy reading even though I don't oppose. I just don't really spend my time in books. Would rather play music.
My all time favorite movie = Idiocracy
Tv shows; The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Breaking Bad, Family Guy, and almost anything with Karl Pilkington,
For my musical preferences it's a broad broad spectrum. Instead of albums I'll name sounds. I like spacey, distorted, shreddy, finger picking, pleasant, dissonant, intricate, simple, middle eastern, epic, eery, jingly, beaty, cheesy, electronic, arpeggiating, and other sounds that could go with or set the current mood.
In order of food I consume most: Mexican, Comfort(which falls under many categories), Italian, Japanese, Thai, am always willing to try new dishes. I have sampled some of the oddest foods. Most wouldn't know these ingredient's were used in some of the dishes I've eaten.
For the most part now however I eat healthy because I cook most of the food I eat. I cook mostly veggie type dishes and try using fresh ingredients as much as possible.
The six things I could never do without
A guitar, some form of heat, water, veggies, tortillas, and....yeah probably set.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I need to stop being a wuss and start conversing with the opposite sex(I'll admit what a lot of the guys here would never). We're all here for a reason and my reason is I'm reserved when in public.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typically it varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've eaten poo before. Not human poo to set the record straight. I'm pretty sure Andrew Zimmern wouldn't have eaten this dish though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're looking for a genuine person. It's only going to work that way for me as well if we're both on the same page there. Having a sense of adventure and the ability to be spontaneous is a bonus.