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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:40am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Never trust a knight in shinning armor. A true knight's armor should never be shinning. His exterior never primped, never polished, never void of defect. It should not look new as if it's just been bought or never dawned and just removed from a coveted hiding place. His worth not gauged by the metal it's made from, but the integrity for which it still holds together. His strength should not be measured by his physical prowess, but the opposition he has encountered and the will with which he has maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds. He should not strive towards you boastful of lack of fear.. That is the song of the fool. His courage should be measured not by his absence of fear, but his ability to accept and triumph over it. His gallantry should not be the results of a silver tongue, but seen in his scars and the weight he bares every moment he stands on his feet for his actions should speak louder than any word... Trust of the innocent is the liar's sharpest sword. A true knight will never expect it... He'll fight to earn it with is his strength, his courage and his gallantry and recover from any strikes he takes in the process. For him, to earn it makes it all the more important and worth fighting to keep than something that's ever just given..."

Let's face facts.. we're are all adults on this website. We all know why we're here. Any one looking for an actual relationship must know one is built on a three legged stool. One leg being Affection; this encompasses love, devotion, physical attraction, etc. The second leg being Communication; can you accurately tell this person your thoughts and your feelings and can this person do the same in return? The third and last leg is Trust; can you rely on this person, do they fulfill their commitments, do you believe they are being honest and open to you, do you believe they have true good intentions towards you, etc? You must have all three for a healthy relationship to work. Should one of these concepts begin to falter, they all will.
Example: If the other person cannot talk to you about something, you're going to begin to feel as if they're keeping information from you. If you feel they are keeping information from you, you'll begin question their intentions and lose trust. When you lost trust in the other person, you'll begin to lose your loyalty to this person and become less devoted and then less affectionate towards them... Lack of communication->Leads to lack of trust->Leads to lack of affection...
So, back to the point. We're all here to attempt to find someone we think we can be affectionate towards. So take a look at my photos, take a look my interests, and if you think I may be a candidate for your affection and you a candidate for mine then send me a message and see if we can't start working on the communication leg of the relationship stool. If not, no hard feelings. Thanks for stopping by and good luck on your search.

Some Basics:
1.) I'm a stark example of an introvert. I'm not antisocial, I do not hate the general public or being with people, etc. I have a sensitivity towards social stimulation. Places I haven't been before, large groups of people, small talk for the sake of small talk or filling the silence, loud/bright places for large periods of time will over stimulate me to the point of flaring up a form of anxiety. I am a great listener, and have no problem conversing/interacting with another human being as long as it's in the right setting.
2.) I have a LONG beard. It's not sexy stubble. It's not just a beard. It's a long beard. It's soft and well maintained. It can be braided/beaded. It blows in the wind. It can be stroked without touching my chin or lifting my arms. When I wake up it's every which direction until maintained for the day just like any other long hair. If you're into beards, but not long beards, I'm sorry, but it's my inner self personified on my outer shell and will not change.
3.) I am a well rounded nerd. Yes, I play table top and video games; yes, I will cosplay or go camping to a week long medieval festival; yes, I watch adult cartoons and anime, yes, I refer to myself a dwarf, but I am also active in sports and exercise regularly. I play defensemen/back-up goal for a Ice Hockey Team in the local beer league, Go Dammers! I hunt, I fish, I hike, and other various outdoors activities. I craft, I have turned my garage into a shop for woodworking and leathercraft. I am a urban gardener and grow vegetables during the growing season. I'm artistic, I have a Bachelors of Fine Arts in Graphic Design/Illustration, I love to sketch, watercolor and create ink drawings. I enjoy a variety of beer, rums, I have/know how to make my own wine. I love history, science, philosophy, and the social sciences. I will admit reading non fiction is a little hard for me (I'll explain later if it comes up) but I love listening to audio books while I'm working, on a long car ride, or a rainy day.
4.) I'm 5'6", I am well aware that the tall, dark, and handsome wish list still applies to women to this day. I'm afraid that unless you're 5'4" or shorter, the tall aspect of that wish list won't apply for me. I will say this though. I have had a relationship with a taller woman and I have no issues with the height difference. So really, the ball is in your court at this point.
5.) I am an understanding guy and believe in closure. I know this is not the norm nowadays. Much like submitting a resume, it has become the norm that instead of actually rejecting someone and communicating that to them, we just ignore them. I fell into that practice for a little while, but I assure you, if you write to me and you're not what I'm looking for I will respect you enough to give you a heads up and good luck message. All I ask is the same respect back...
Latest Edit 03/2015
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Ask me. I'd be just as happy to share my story as much as hear yours.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This question is rather subjective. Depends on whose judging my life up to this point.

I like to think there's a number of things I'm good at. Mainly things that allow my creative juices to flow, which could be anything from artwork to cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The beard...
I'm short for a guy...
I have forearms that rival Pop-eyes...
I shave my head...
I'm always wearing some type of black shirt...
I have small ears apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything by R. A. Salvatore and the Forgotten Realm books, Anything by J.R.R. Tolkien, The early Redwall series books by Brian Jacques, World War Z, The Tao of Pooh, and A Song of Fire and Ice Series just to name a few.

This would be a long list so I'll say I enjoy anything, but horror films. Unless, it's B rated horror films that you can sit and laugh at.

TV Shows:
Cartoons: Retro Cartoons (Anything from LooneyToons to Space Ghost: Coast to Coast to Doug.) Venture Brothers, Family Guy, Futurama, Archer.
Live Action: Scrubs, House, How I Met Your Mother, American Pickers, Game of Thrones, Glee, The Big Bang Theory.
Anime: Ai Yori Aoshi series, Gatari Series, Chobits, Clannad, Elfen Lied, Ghost in the Shell, Kanon, New Dominion Tank Police, Record of Lodoss War, Shuffle!, School Days and Venus Wars.

I'm as eclectic with music as I am movies. It all depends on my mood and the setting. It may have been a hard day at work and I wanna come home and relax so I'll put on some instrumental piano music. I may be pumping up for a hockey game and throw on some alternative/metal. I may be driving around on a nice day with the windows down and through in some "top 40" from any generation (1950-2010s). Could be sitting outside grilling and enjoying a drink and put on some Frank. It all depends. I can tell you there are some things I don't really get/enjoy. There's a lot of Rap I just can't get into, "Dubstep" is bewildering and screamer metal where it's just some angry white kids yelling at the top of their lungs...

I'll try anything once. What I don't particularly care for is food that's made to replace/taste like other food. For instance: tofu. Don't particularly care for it. Turkey bacon? Why not just have regular bacon? Likewise, I tend to steer clear of imitation meals as much as possible. Only thing I might cook in my microwave is to heat/steam vegetables. With that said, anything else is fair game, doesn't matter the ethnicity or how weird it my be.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other than the essentials of life: food, water, shelter, love?

A steady paycheck, an automobile, my creative side, a little imagination, logic, purpose...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm all about letting people into the inner workings that is my mind. I just don't know if I want to post it for a first impression. I'm an over thinker, and at times it's actually hard for me quiet my mind. If you're interested, just ask.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work retail... Friday night has no greater significance than a Tuesday or a Sunday night. I'm either working, engaging in one of my hobbies, or spending time with my brothers or my friends, much like any other human being over the age of 21.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A question worth asking is a question worth answering... but there are times when the truth is not what one person deserves and some things are best left unsaid...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you can actually open up and talk about your about yourself. I understand the importance of physical attraction, I really do, but all the icing on the outside means nothing to me if the cake on the inside is rotten, poorly baked, etc...

If you can describe yourself without using the phrases:
"I like to have fun...", (don't broad-brush, what exactly is fun for you)
"I love to party..." (I love to breathe???)
"I live my life to the fullest..." (not gonna touch this one right now)
any fake adjective that adds "icious" to it (self-explanatory)