I believe the good ones more than outweigh the others.
The dream of "the great relationship" includes an abundance of affection and desire and an absence of criticism and quarreling. A joining of two people which makes both stronger through the support they actively give and show to each other. There is no game playing in this dream and honesty is expected, openness is encouraged.
If each person is truly looking out for the other, it reduces the need to look out for oneself. Two people with a disposition towards selflessness could have a real chance of happiness together.
I enjoy movies, Texas hold'em, finances (though I have never learned to invest well....wait, I SUCK!), politics (I lean heavily left), giving massages (really), dining out, and more. I jog almost every day, but I don't enjoy it AT ALL!
I enjoy a woman with a sharp sense of humor who can also poke fun at herself and appreciates the same.