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JeffColeman

24 Bristol, CT Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who am I? Jeff. Gamer, geek, reader of books. I am fond of black tea.

Neither of us can appropriately sum up who we are in a place like this. It's the sort of thing you'd have to see in person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A little bit of this, a little bit of that. Ask me about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stuff and things. I have a lot of skills, many of which I am good at. What am I 'really' good at? Fewer things, case by case basis.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It varies. Make your own impression of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fantasy and Sci-fi books, movies, and shows, for the most part. I do quite enjoy tv dramas as well.

That said, as I work in a bookstore, I've been expanding what books I read. JR Ward and Alice Clayton are fantastic Romance authors, and I highly recommend them. Cassandra Claire is good (though I really do think the Mortal Instruments books should just be a trilogy), and John Flanagan is fantastic at what he does (seriously - the Ranger's Apprentice series was awesome to read).

Food used to be annoying to deal with, but along came Soylent, and everything is easier now.

My music tastes stretch far and wide, as an example, I am quite fond of power metal (and folk, hero, gothic, a little bit of heavy, and pirate metal), but I also bought T Swift's 1989 when it came out, and you'll see me rockin' to beats from Peter Hollens and Lindsey Stirling up to Mark Ronson.

I've been listening to quite a bit of Nightcore lately, and.. well... We could have a whole conversation over this area. Let's do that over tea, yes? When would you like to meet?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Basically, in no particular order:

Hot Tea
Comfy Clothes
Family (The ones you choose along with the ones you don't.)
Honesty
Toiletries
Stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Much and more. What will the characters say and do next? What's that ability do? Did he just say that? What? I wonder what this does... and so on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, gaming, and writing, quite possibly in that order, depending on what shift at work I have.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bugs, insects, spiders, and/or other creepy/crawly things freak me out. Like... this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QY-zngxmT_U

But also, I like to sit here waiting for a message from miss right that probably won't come. Why? Because it seems ladies are content to wait for the perfect guy to message them instead of actually sending messages of their own out to people. But ladies, we all know what happens when you wait for messages - as evidenced by the thousand creepy messages guys send all the time. I've gotten a few them myself, and yea, it's a bit unpleasant.

So I wonder - with all the various pushes for equality between men and women, why is it that men are still expected to approach women first, and that if a relationship is to go further, that men should propose or otherwise initiate it? Why don't we see ads, signs, and pictures encouraging ladies to propose, or ads about ladies being nervous about approaching someone? Apparently society thinks ladies don't get nervous and just have to wait for the right man to show up.

That's pretty much BS, and I'm sure we all know it. Still, sometimes I like to sit and wait, and see if anyone will approach, because ultimately, that's what I want. Someone who knows what she wants and isn't going to let fear or nervousness stop her from getting it.

I've met a couple of those people, and they are awesome. Life being what it is, it's never right for us at the time, but here's where we can hope, eh?
You should message me if
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You are curious or interested. Really, you should message me if you want to.

Also - a fun excersise... As our ideal matches probably don't exist (or if they do, they're not on this site), open up with what you think would be the perfect mate (male, female, or other (other because it sums up all the others, and listing them all would be far too much)). I'll talk about what I think would be perfect and well, though they may not exist on the site, doesn't mean we don't have a friend, or a friend of a friend that fits the description. Let's help each other out, and have a nice chat, eh?