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24 M Bristol, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Virgo, and it matters a lot
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want to provide a glimpse into who I am, just enough to spark your curiosity, but not enough for you to understand me. That'll come later, through conversations, possibly over tea and coffee...

It all comes down to stories.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Whatever I want, really. Within reason, of course. I'll give you a hint, though. It has to do with stories, sometimes books are involved too!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to, reading, watching, participating in, and finding stories.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It varies. Depending on my mood, really. Maybe they notice that I don't talk much, that I hate to interrupt people, that I... well, you'll have to see for yourself. Make your own impression of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fantasy and sci-fi for A, B, C, D, and F/G, though F and G are broader, and D has expanded to others.

E can be a chore and a pain in the ass that I don't want to, but have to deal with. I'm working on a way around it, but I still maintain my favorites. It's kinda like C E, but not the C from before and only partially the E.

If you understood that... then you are special, and we need to have an excellent conversation. The first part is easy, but that bit at the end there.. that's what really matters here. Do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth? /JamesCarter
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This I can be less vague about, despite the fact that this section is inappropriately named.

Basically, in no particular order:

Hot Tea
Comfy Clothes
Family (The ones you choose along with the ones you don't.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dreams, friends, people I've met, places I want to go, people I want to meet. I think about many things, the world in my mind is most definitely more awesome than the world in front of my eyes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Inside, on the computer, laughing and having a good time with my friends. I have a cup or two of tea with me, comfy clothes on, and am having a blast.

Or working. Possibly both, depending on how long you consider 'night' to be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I refuse to dance when people are watching. You find a nice, slow song that we can dance to, perhaps after a dinner by candle light, and I will be there for you. Any other circumstance, and it's not going to happen... at least, not in public.

Also, when it comes to bugs, insects, spiders, or other creepy/crawly things, I freak the fuck out, and you're going to need to handle that.
You should message me if
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You are curious.

After a profile like this, I'd be curious. I would send myself a message being all like "So, stories, eh?" I'd respond with something like, "Yep. Stories." Then sit in slightly awkward silence as we stare at each other, me waiting for you to say something to get the conversation going, while you wait for me to elaborate, or until you think of something to say that I might open up about. Maybe you'll sit in silence, waiting for me to ask a question, and this will go on for hours, waiting to see who breaks first. What started as awkward tension will turn to stubbornness to not speak first. I'll desperately want to talk and make conversation, but that would ruin the point of it, and if you don't choose the right answer, this could go on indefinitely.

If you know the right answer to the above paragraph (and by 'right' I mean what I think is right, not necessarily what you think is right, unless what we think is right is the same thing, and then that's the best response.)