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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:53pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Write a little about yourself, or so the site tells me to do. I don't do 'little', when I write, it is always far more than what most people consider 'necessary'. That's just how I am, however.

Basically... I play video games, read manga, watch anime, and work in a bookstore. Of course, there's more to me than that, but... you'd have to send me a message to know more.

As my username implies, I am Jeff Coleman. Look me up, send me a message. You might (or might not), know me as Badfur, Avahur, or Calafalas (Cala), but maybe not. Depends on which circles, and such.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a bookstore, for now. It's fun (except when everyone catches work plague).

As such, I am spending a LOT of my free time reading. So many books, discount too good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stuff and things. I have a lot of skills, many of which I am good at. What am I 'really' good at? Fewer things, case by case basis.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It varies. Make your own impression of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fantasy and Sci-fi books, movies, and shows, for the most part. I do quite enjoy tv dramas as well.

That said, as I work in a bookstore, I've been expanding what books I read. JR Ward and Alice Clayton are fantastic Romance authors, and I highly recommend them. Cassandra Clare is good (though I really do think the Mortal Instruments books should just be a trilogy), and John Flanagan is fantastic at what he does (seriously - the Ranger's Apprentice series was awesome to read). I recently started reading the Preternatural Affairs books. Very good.

Food used to be annoying to deal with, but along came Soylent, and everything is easier now.

My music tastes stretch far and wide. I generally prefer european metal. Alestorm, Sabaton, HammerFall, Blind Guardian. I dip into a select few other styles, but, it's really hard to sum up my music tastes.

I've been listening to quite a bit of Nightcore lately, and.. well... We could have a whole conversation over this area. Let's do that over tea, yes? When would you like to meet?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Basically, in no particular order:

Hot Tea
Comfy Clothes
Family (The ones you choose along with the ones you don't.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Much and more. What will the characters say and do next? What's that ability do? Did he just say that? What? I wonder what this does... and so on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, gaming, and writing, quite possibly in that order, depending on what shift at work I have.

On the weekend, when it is running, if I'm not working, I'll probably be going to a Renaissance Faire, as I did on the 6th of June 2015. Fantastic times, awesome people, excellent music and shows. A good time all around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't do: Nature, Insects, or Arachnids of any sort.
You should message me if
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You are curious or interested. Really, you should message me if you want to.

Also - a fun excersise... As our ideal matches probably don't exist (or if they do, they're not on this site), open up with what you think would be the perfect mate. I'll talk about what I think would be perfect and well, though they may not exist on the site, doesn't mean we don't have a friend, or a friend of a friend that fits the description. Let's help each other out, and have a nice chat, eh?