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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:34pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Write a little about yourself, or so the site tells me to do. I don't do 'little', when I write, it is always far more than what most people consider 'necessary'. That's just how I am, however.

Basically... I play video games, read manga, watch anime, and work in a bookstore. Of course, there's more to me than that, but... you'd have to send me a message to know more.

As my username implies, I am Jeff Coleman. Look me up, send me a message. You might (or might not), know me as Badfur, Avahur, or Calafalas (Cala), but maybe not. Depends on which circles, and such.

I am... emotionally deficient, in many ways. You'll get used to it... or you won't.

If you look to your right, you'll see what I'm looking for. Pretty much whatever. Age is mostly just a number, and while I'm absolutely all for folks outside of that range, I try to keep it at a somewhat socially acceptable level.

I... am a person. I do things that people do. I talk, I socialize, I curl up in a ball and read books, and spend my days off in pajamas watching marathons of shows and anime on the internet.

It happens. Maybe you're like me in some way. Maybe not. I'd like to hear from you in either case.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a bookstore, for now. It's fun (except when everyone catches work plague).

As such, I am spending a LOT of my free time reading. So many books, discount too good.

I also like to write, on occasion. My current plan is to finish my book by the end of 2016. Lots to write, massive, massive story.

When not working, writing, etc, I'm kicking rump in video games. If you play Star Wars the Old Republic, you can find me on the server Jedi Covenant. I have 60s for both Imps and Pubs, and if you want to pvp, I'm always up for it. I have a Jedi Guardian and a Sith Juggernaut, both are tanks in PvP, as well as a Sorc (healer), Sniper, Sage (healer / dps), Commando (healer), and Marauder. With other toons on their way up. I've played pretty much everything, though I only recently came to the server when my guild, Black Widow Company, transferred here.

Cool times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stuff and things. I have a lot of skills, many of which I am good at. What am I 'really' good at? Fewer things, case by case basis.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It varies. Make your own impression of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fantasy and Sci-fi books, movies, and shows, for the most part. I do quite enjoy tv dramas as well.

That said, as I work in a bookstore, I've been expanding what books I read. JR Ward and Alice Clayton are fantastic Romance authors, and I highly recommend them. Cassandra Clare is good (though I really do think the Mortal Instruments books should just be a trilogy), and John Flanagan is fantastic at what he does (seriously - the Ranger's Apprentice series was awesome to read). I recently started reading the Preternatural Affairs books. Very good.

Food used to be annoying to deal with, but along came Soylent, and everything is easier now.

My music tastes stretch far and wide. I generally prefer european metal. Alestorm, Sabaton, HammerFall, Blind Guardian. I dip into a select few other styles, but, it's really hard to sum up my music tastes.

I've been listening to quite a bit of Nightcore lately, and.. well... We could have a whole conversation over this area. Let's do that over tea, yes? When would you like to meet?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Basically, in no particular order:

Hot Tea
Comfy Clothes
Family (The ones you choose along with the ones you don't.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Much and more. What will the characters say and do next? What's that ability do? Did he just say that? What? I wonder what this does... and so on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, gaming, and writing, quite possibly in that order, depending on what shift at work I have.

On the weekend, when it is running, if I'm not working, I'll probably be going to a Renaissance Faire, as I did on the 6th of June 2015. Fantastic times, awesome people, excellent music and shows. A good time all around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't do: Nature, Insects, or Arachnids of any sort.
You should message me if
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You are curious or interested. Really, you should message me if you want to.