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Student_of_Lore

22 / M / Straight / Single

Bristol, Connecticut

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:57pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
So, to start things off, allow me to introduce myself. I am Jeff Coleman, I'm 22, and, among other things, am a geek. I enjoy video games, manga, and anime. Reading fantasy (with a touch of sci-fi and historical fiction) books is a favorite pastime of mine.

I'm a firm believer in conversation as a means to understand people. If you don't like to chat on here, then by all means, add/follow me on Facebook, Skype, or Twitter.

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Badfur
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Badfur
Skype: jeff.badfur.cala

I am always looking for new friends, the number of folks I can count as friends has dwindled a bit, and I'd like to add to it. So, let's chat.

I'm not perfect. I'm sorry if you're looking for someone perfect, I hope you find that person, but it probably isn't me. I have a disease called morals, it's often fatal.

Among my many flaws, one of them is that despite how people behave on the internet, I do fundamentally believe that the average person is 'good'. I use the term 'good' loosely, as 'good' and 'bad' are subjective. In the popular view of the term 'good', however, that is how I feel most humans are at a base level. Other factors can affect and change that on a moment to moment, day to day basis, but at it's core, everyone is, for the most part, a 'good' person.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend my free time doing a variety of things. Some time is in my classes at Tunxis, trying to somehow get a degree in New Media Communications. It's an ongoing battle. College and I don't get along.

When not fighting an uphill battle with college, I spent time running a news team, where I double as the head editor. I also spend my evenings working on websites.

See, I make websites for people, and I work as a bartender for events and parties. www.badfursbastion.com
I’m really good at
Reading. I have spent a lot of time reading books.

I'm also quite capable at PvP. I enjoy it.
The first things people usually notice about me
No idea. No one ever says, but if we meet for tea, perhaps you could tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Way of Kings by Brandon Sanderson, The Name of the Wind, and The Wise Man's Fear by Patrick Rothfuss, The Black Company series in particular by Glen Cook (though I love all his books). I also love some books by Brent Weeks, Trudi Canavan, Gail Z. Martin, Paul S. Kemp... the list goes on.. I do enjoy reading. I might even call myself a student of lore. I've been working my way through the Garrett P.I. series by Glen Cook lately.

Movies: The Losers is an awesome movie. As are the Lord of the Rings movies, Star Wars I-VI. Hackers, Stealth, Men In Black I - III. Generally, I enjoy movies in the Science Fiction and Fantasy genres. Action is also a favorite, but I also have low standards for movies - I just want to be entertained.

Shows: NCIS, NCIS: Los Angeles, Mythbusters, Burn Notice, Doctor Who, and The Mentalist.

Music: I like heavy metal, power metal, and folk metal. But I also enjoy other genres such as pop, rock, trance, techno, jpop, kpop, and occasionally a bit of rap. Also, the Epic Music Mega Mixes are awesome, I highly suggest them. I don't let tastes in music dissuade me.... I can listen to most forms of music without issue, and if music tastes are our only issues, I think we're in good shape.

Food: I enjoy eating steak, and most forms of meat. I like eating broccoli as well, and shrimp is by far my favorite seafood, with Lobster being a close second.
The six things I could never do without
Well, there is the obvious. Also, this isn't to say that I would die if these things did not exist. I would adapt, and make do with what is available (as might be the case in the event of a zombie apocalypse - even though the CDC issued a statement saying it wouldn't happen. They are only being delusional.) That said, however, the list is as follows:

In no particular order,

1. Internet
2. Computer
3. Books
4. Humans (I do like the human race, even though many people do piss me off, and others have a tendency to do something extremely stupid. I like people... think Orihaya Izaya, if you know the reference.)
5. Hot Tea
6. Comfy clothes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Myself, my life, books, fictional characters, witty things to say, my past (and how I would be tempted to change it if I could, even though I know it is because of my past that I am who I am today), and other stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home on the computer talking with friends and playing computer games (League of Legends, Star Wars: The Old Republic).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I almost started crying at this: http://www.ted.com/talks/shane_koyczan_to_this_day_for_the_bullied_and_beautiful.html It's quite beautiful.

I weigh 126lbs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You should message me if you liked anything you read, hated anything you read, feel like correcting any place where I may have made a grammatical error. Also consider messaging me if you just want to talk, or you feel like insulting the very fiber of my being. In the latter case, I welcome you to throw what insults you can at me. I can assure you I will be highly amused, and will applaud your method of initiating conversation.

Also, if you wear glasses. I generally find that I am more attracted to ladies with glasses. That said, there is nothing wrong with not wearing them.

You enjoy puns.

If I've been to your profile more than once or twice, 9 times out of 10 I'm interested and just haven't had the moment to shoot you a message. So, shoot me one instead!