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33 Somers, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 27
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's difficult for me to talk abot myself in a narrative. Music is my main passion in life could not survive without it. I am geek and prod of it! I love sci-fi/fantasy, tech stuff, science and history, I'd much rather read than watch TV, and I tend to obsess over things a bit. There's still a little bit of the goth girl from back in the day left in me. Also I'm a curvy girl and okay with it. If you are looking for a size 2 please move on. The information on this profile gives a very good representation of who I am so, take a look at my questions, personality and tests. If there's something else you want to know, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now working a 9-5 and paying my bills. Sounds kind of boring I know but what can you do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener, a good friend, fiercely loyal and very compassionate. When I do something I put my heart and soul into it. I am quiet creative.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very shy and reserved when I first meet someone. But once I feel comfortable with someone I open up.

Things people should know:
- When I say shy I mean horribly painfully shy.
- l am very guarded it takes a lot for me to let people in. Once I do it means a lot.
- I can't stand being called baby, honey, cutie, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: My favorite author is Pat Conroy, for me it's more about the author's writing style than content if they can craft a good story it doesn't matter the genre. Generally I enjoy historical fiction and fantasy novels and I love Shakespeare.

Movies: I enjoy all types of movies. Once again if it's well done it doesn't mater if it's a action flick or a French art-house film. My 5 favorite movies are Amadeus, Almost Famous, White Nights, The Red Violin, and Memoirs of a Geisha.

Shows: I don't watch TV. I do catch a few shows online now and again, I love the Daily show and there are a few sitcoms that I'll go for: The Big Bang Theory and How I Met Your Mother, and a few other things here and there but there's nothing I have to watch.

Music: This is the big one. I am very passionate about music. I listen to primarily Rock, but I do have eclectic taste. My favorites are Alternative Rock, 60's & 70's Folk Rock, and 80's British New Wave. My all time favorite band is The Smashing Pumpkins on a level that is almost unnatural - you've been warned.

Food: I admit it I enjoy food and I am quite adventitious whan it comes to tring new foods and cuisines. I am also a very good cook and I enjoy cooking and sharing it with others. Right now a big question when it comes to food is "Can I put sriracha on that?" And you'd be surprised how often the answer is yes. Sriracha chicken wings with coconut lime cream is my favorite concoction I've come up with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
1) Music
2) A good book
3) Good conversation
4) Tea
5) My cats
6) A sense of accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh I think too much. My mind is constantly going. It's hard to pick a topic. It all depends on whats going on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...most likely doing something low key. I'm not into the bar/club scene. Most often it's a coffee shop or a movie. For a nice night out I go into the city got to museums, the theater, etc. I also like a nice restaurant or a good wine bar. Though I do enjoy a good rock concert even though I don't go as often as I did.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm willing to put it here for everyone to see it's not very private at all is it? For the sake of putting something in; I'm a Groupon junkie. You're going to have to get to know me better for more. Sorry.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you tend to lean toward the geeky/nerdy side.
- you are willing to take the initiative. (at least for a bit)
- you don't mind me going on and on about music.
- you're looking for something real.
- you think curvy/full figure girls can be attractive. (but not in a freaky fetishy way)
- you like or would like to wander around NYC finding random art galleries, great underground music, interesting shops and hole-in-the-wall eateries.
- you want me to message you. (if I see you've checked out my profile and didn't ever rate it I figure you're not interested)

You should NOT message me if
- you're married or seeing someone.
- you're looking for a fling or casual sex.
- you're just looking for an online plaything.
- you're unwilling to participate in something real.
- you're looking for someone to fill your time until something better comes along.