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40 M Clearwater, FL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:15am
Asian, White
5′ 9″ (1.74m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
[NOTE: I'm traveling between Clearwater and Toronto right now but I am open to get to know you (and maybe find you) wherever you are in the world.]

I am ... hm. ... I yam what I yam! No, guess that's not good enough ...

Okay, I am a simple guy that just likes to play ... no, not like a "player"! *sigh* ...

Okay, I know how to put it ... the thing I value most from all my relationships (friends & lovers) is simply being able to share and play. No worries or seriousness or status or "supposed to's" — just a pure affinity for one another with a true spirit of play. Goofing around, laughing, wrestling in bed — it doesn't matter what is being done really — whether seeing a musical or digging a ditch; it's just the spirit of the thing. (Don't worry, I won't ask you to dig a ditch with me ... at least not right away).

I am a man of personal integrity. I pride myself on my ability to stay sane and honest even when the environment is otherwise. This has a lot to do with the fact I don't give undue importance to social pressures and what everyone else thinks about me. I do give importance to other people though. I think people are important and everyone deserves respect.

Most people see me as an intelligent guy. That probably has a lot to do with pinning me within the Chinese stereotype, but hey do blondes complain about having more fun? :) But what it means to me is that I think about things, I consider others' ideas, I like to learn, I like to make things efficient, I like figuring things out, I like to look at the big picture. I like the wisdom in knowing that I don't know. I am constantly asking questions and seeking truths.

Enh, what else — do you ladies really read all this? Or should I just resort to a shirtless photo? Ah, we'll see about that if/when I become desperate for a response ... :P

I am playful, honest, intelligent ... and nigh-invulnerable!

If you want to speed up the process, a team of lab boys have constructed some high-tech scientific testing to find compatible partners and allies. I suggest you try it out before reading the rest of my profile.

My Okcupid match-up test:
Captain Ronaldo Ultimate Team-up Test
What I’m doing with my life
Creating, adventuring, making art, renovating, learning. Working on projects to make passive income by doing things I enjoy and can be proud of. I live frugally and freely.
I’m really good at
Mostly anything I decide.

... though I'm not necessarily "really good" at making decisions. But then perhaps if I decide to be good at deciding ...

[Edit] Maybe I should at least mention kissing as well. I'm really good at kissing. No really, I have references! :D
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm about 24 years old (which I'm not). Some people even insist that I'm lying about my age. Somewhat amusing but since I consider myself timeless, it neither bothers me nor flatters me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Performances, films, etc. that I love include: the musical "Les Miserables"; the movies, Life is Beautiful, Amelie, The Color Purple, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Braveheart, The Matrix, What Dreams May Come, Million Dollar Baby, Dead Poet's Society, Spirited Away, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Forest Gump, more I'll add later.

Hm, some relationship themed movies: Ruby Sparks, Crazy Stupid Love,

I haven't found myself reading a lot of fiction lately but the most recent book I enjoyed was Anansi Boys by Neil Gaiman.
For more favourites, let's throw in Calvin & Hobbes; and then comic books like The Sandman, The Watchmen, and The Dark Knight Returns.

Music preferences are varied. I would have to list songs and this profile is already too long.

I don't watch TV.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. Sometimes merely the immediate future but sometimes far ahead.

I think about how the whole world (including me) is crazy. Somehow, I need to understand it. This also means I'm not judgmental - we're all subject to the same negative tendencies that we abhor in others (it may be to greater or lesser degree an on different subjects but we're all guilty of being human). I have been ignorant, prejudiced, hateful, fearful, done harmful things, etc. and pretty likely you have too. For me, understanding it, is the way that leads to solving it within ourselves and with others.

No one is without baggage, but I have to say I travel very light.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Friday nights. But let's pretend I think about you on Friday nights so I can talk about you here.

You may or may not share the same likes and opinions as me but you do share some fundamental principles.

You know there is something different about you. You can observe and think for yourself; you are not overly concerned about what other people think. You don't operate on rumors or prejudices. You believe in yourself, so much so that you are not easily offended. You rarely need to argue about how right you are and you are comfortable knowing when you don't know and you can understand different viewpoints. You approach relationship with eyes open, willing to respect, learn about and accept the other person as he is, rather than struggling to make him conform to your standard. You can discuss openly and honestly about each person's needs & wants without animosity or criticism or force.

You are genuinekind, and have not lost hope in people. You want to contribute to improving the world, whether you know how to or not. You are fairly fit because you are active in life. You know deep down that you are beautiful both inside and out. Your outer beauty is by no means the most important thing about you. You love kids. You love to play!

You value individual freedom.

You probably have a LOT of guys chasing you but none of the connections seem quite right. If you persevere, you'll eventually find me. It doesn't have to be right away -- I have things I need to do anyway. And maybe I'll make some friends while I'm here. :)

PS. You have enough courage to message me. You may have already deleted my message to you, having been lost in the crowd of okcupid men that are all beginning to look the same to you. So it may be up to you to find me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After consulting a trusted friend, I lowered my profile age to 40. Apparently this is still too old compared to what to expect from me in person (appearance and attitude) but I don't want to fib any lower. I'm really 43.

My view on religion is at this link! Sometimes a fairly private and sensitive topic ...
Which Religion Is Right For Me?

This is also important:
How Can I Be Happy?

MONEY … While I will always be independent, debt-free and survive well financially, you will never see me with big empty houses, or Hummers and BMWs, or even any kind of bling-bling. I don't care about impressing people in this way so if you are anxious about keeping up with the Joneses or what your parents or friends think, I wouldn't be right for you as a partner.

Wow, you're still here?!! Then read on and message me! ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You feel a strange inexplicable connection to me despite my odd and long profile. Perhaps you've been searching for me lifetime after lifetime and now you've finally found me!


2. You have psychic powers, that you want to hone and you want to eventually form a kick ass team (I'm interested if you have any superpower, really).


3. We share a 95%-99% match score! Take my test: Captain Ronaldo Ultimate Team-up Test and let me know the result! (I can't view results or even see who took the test). If you fit in this category and you actually LIKE this profile, you are a very rare bird and you should make yourself known to me.


4. You just want to say Hi and be my friend; or to ask for advice or maybe even to hang out or to invite me to play charades or a game of football. This is okay even if you're a guy -- I had a thought to message a guy before just because I liked something he wrote in the forum. Who says you can't just make friends here too? And finding fundamentally like-minded friends is an uncommon thing to be treasured.