Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
- I do not date outside my own race (Caucasian). Please respect the
decision I have made. It is a personal preference, nothing
- I will never send explicit photographs of myself. Please do not
- Although I have full appreciation for the beauty of an athletic
man's body, I have no desire to see your naked pictures. There are
just some things that should be explored/discovered in
- Sexy does not equate to sexually promiscuous. Please use good
judgement if you choose to contact me.
- If you are married, do not contact me. I have no desire to help
you commit adultery. This also applies if you have a significant
other or if you are currently in a relationship.
- I do not use Quickmatch. If you are interested, please send a
Honest and straight forward (see above if you do not know what that
means). I believe in doing the right thing for the right
I relate best to men who are confident, ambitious, successful,
clean cut in appearance, college educated and/or worldly. I prefer
men close to my age or a few years younger. Please be local. I am
not interested in a long distance relationship.
I live a drama free lifestyle and choose not to introduce drama
into my life through a relationship.
I love to travel to places I've never been. Be it a small rural
town or any international location. I've seen more than my share of
the world; however, I would love to have someone special to share
these experiences with me. I prefer the road less travelled...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to understand why a kind hearted, intelligent, successful,
financially secure, emotionally available woman has such a
difficult time finding the same qualities in a Charlotte area
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Supporting and taking care of myself, but would really like a
special relationship with a good man.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to most types of music with the exception of rap. I enjoy
classic films and also current box office hits. Thai food is my all
time favorite. The hotter the better!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My best friend
Freshly laundered bed linens
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and where it is taking me next. I do not dwell on the past (or
past relationships) and so look forward to all my future has in
I have also recently spent time thinking about why so many people
are into casual and/or serial dating. It seems people have lost the
ability to connect, communicate, and commit to each other. I have
been on my own for several years now and I think I would rather
stay that way if casual dating / uncommitted relationships are the
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking a much deserved bubble bath or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It would not be private if I put it here for everyone to read...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You have not misrepresented your age or body type.
- You are older than 40.
- You are honest and can communicate openly.
- You have confidence in yourself and your abilities.
- You are happy and laugh often.
Who are you looking for?
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