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45 Dixon, NM Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:42am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Updates Coming soon...

I've reset my question database and started over. So much has changed.

Most of following was written prior to 2011:

I am a green-eyed man with long brown hair and a mellow disposition. I am a bit of a geek. I love music. I play hand drums (djembe, doumbek). I strive to remain respectful and sincere while still showing my sense of humor. I am quite candid when I open up. Sometimes I can be a space cadet, but I am also known to be brilliant.

Some completely random stuff about me...

I have an old gray tabby cat who craves my attention. I am very good at troubleshooting. I went to a different school each year from grades 1-10. I am the oldest of three half brothers and a half sister who I very rarely ever see. My longest relationship lasted 13 years and ended in the Spring of '07. I lost my job in Santa Fe in 2010 and subsequently lost my condo there as well and have been staying in various places for much longer than I care for. I miss having a home to call my own. I've never married. I have no children. I lived in Albuquerque from age 13 to 32. I often hosted wild parties during my 20's. In 8th grade my IQ was tested/estimated to be very high. I doubt that I'm nearly as smart as I was then, but the wisdom I have gained serves me well.

I believe that mutual nurturing and emotional support are important in a loving relationship, and that communication and honesty are paramount to the same.

Other interests include making music, drumming, belly-dancers, camping, erotica, research, science, intimacy, sensuality, computers, tech-support, psychology, sociology, philosophy, physics, petite women, curvy women, pigtails, cats, love, intelligence, compassion, passion, dancing, long hair, friends, physical affection, passion.

My desire to cherish and return the love of a woman whom I respect and adore has often been a profound force in my life.

I am clever, amused, and I love.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, watching, learning, earning, playing, working, creating, paying, and partying. Sometimes I wonder if I should be taking it all more seriously, but then I get distracted by some shiny object or profound insight.

I am skilled with service and support for personal computers with two decades of experience, and I am looking for work, so if you know of anybody in need of such service, or might have a job position, please let me know.

I am interested in energy systems and have a strong understanding of the physics governing them. I would be delighted by an opportunity to get involved with anything close to research and development of power technology that is ecologically sustainable and/or renewable.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being amused, being clever, seeing the bigger picture

Losing track of huge amounts of time while on the Internet

I strive to maintain a broad perspective such that I may better understand what I see, and how others may see it as well.

In addition to computers, I can fix just about anything fixable.

I understand a good deal about physics, electronics, materials, structural design, automechanics, and personal computers. When it matters to me, I am pretty good at figuring people out too, but there are always exceptions.

Playing hand drums, (doumbek, djembe), Electric Bass Guitar.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the long hair, unless I'm around several other people with long hair, then you would notice that I am not as tall as most of them.

If you happened to encounter me among several other long-haired people who are not any taller than than I am, then you have probably stepped into the twilight zone or something, and you should cetainly notice that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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K-PAX, 13th Warrior, Wag the Dog, Big Lebowski, Contact, Almost Famous, Brazil, Dogma, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Clerks, Lord of the Rings, Good Will Hunting, A Beautiful Mind, The Fisher King, The Village, Crank, American Beauty, V for Vendetta, Chicago, Wizards, Cool World, Yellow Submarine, The Usual Suspects, Reservoir Dogs, A Fish Called Wanda, Man On Fire, The Wall, Crash, Repo Man, Hudson Hawk ..., ..., there are so many I've enjoyed, and this list is out-dated.

I read science magazines like Scientific American Mind and Science News, and I read web pages, forums, blogs, etc.

In general I listen to classic rock/prog rock/techno/rave/alternative/reggae/blues

Anything from Led Zeppelin to Tori Amos, Bob Marley to Sarah McLachlan

Country music and rap are certainly my least enjoyed genres.

Food: Organic real food is preferred.

When I was a kid I ate pinto beans and rice, tofu, goats milk, garden vegetables (corn, chard, spinach, string beans, tomatoes, squash, asparagus), whole grain bread, cheese & sprouts sandwiches, and of course green chili. Then I moved to the city for a while and my diet became much less healthy.

I prefer organic foods, real foods, non-processed foods, and I try to avoid foods with added sugar. I also like pasta dishes (without tomatoes), salad, enchiladas, burritos, black beans, green beans, soups, and lighter meats. On occasion, I get an urge for a quality steak. I like fish. Sushi is good too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ummm... never do what?

I could never do without (what remains of) the freedoms and civil liberties still protected by our government.

Six things would include nothing, anything, something, that thing, this thing and the other thing.

"Sevens"...because 6 of them make 42. Go figure.

Other than my body itself, I have no material items crucial to my existence or identity - or at least I'd like to think so. I really must concede to needing corrective lenses in order to have functional vision beyond about three feet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything I have not figured out or reached a functional understanding of (so... an awful lot of things then)

Why and how.

The forces of capitalism - yikes

How to fix something
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will admit some very private things long before I probably should.
You should message me if
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Just do it.